Pamper yourself more...but dont change who you are
2007-01-10 02:10:34
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answered by superstarlauren_02 2
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How can you become a girl and not be a tomboy anymore? Why wouldn't you want to be a 'tomboy'? I'm a tomboy, always have been, but on occasion, very few occasions, I'll doll up. My husband doesn't mind, he actually says that's one of the things he loves about me. But think about this before you switch your style, I get hit on at the bars when I'm wearing a hoodie and my fave holy jeans, no makeup and my hair down, but when I do my hair and wear a tad of makeup and dress in something 'girly', I very rarely EVER get hit on. My guy friends and husband tell me this: When a guy sees a down to earth chick at a bar (a tomboy if you will), he sees a real person. When he sees the girls with mini's and all done up, he sees the easy possibilities for the night, and doesn't think much further than that.
2007-01-10 02:13:45
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answered by Jase 3
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Why do not you want to be a tomboy anymore? tomboy's are tremendous! i turned right into a significant tomboy yet i ended looking like one at the same time as i ended wearing boys' outfits and were given some straighteners for my birthday 3 years in the past. Now I placed on make up and stuff yet nonetheless imagine like a tomboy, i don't believe of 'oh my god, I broke a nail!' so i'm not an pretty girly lady I a lifeless ringer for garments and make up! I hate it when I tell human beings I survive a farm and they flow 'No way! you're way too girly' :( I purely gown up at the same time as i flow out!
2016-12-02 02:14:31
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answered by ? 4
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By not making an overhaul in one day, but changing or adding a little thing here, a little thing there, your transformation can be natural, smooth and effective.
Before making your changes, remember: You can still be a tomboy at heart (I am and I'm o-o-old), and do a tomboy activity/behavior when it suits you. By blending the feminine style into your life, you're developing another part of yourself into greater focus, and it doesn't require you abandon/destroy the tomboy part (our 'past' life is what got us to where we are, like a seed that sprouts, grows, and looks different than when it began).
My daughter is a tomboy, and about to begin her 'girlification'. Here are some things she's doing: occasionally using an elastic headband on her short hair (no pink/pastels allowed), crystal posts on newly pierced ears (nearly painless), less wearing of sport jerseys or team-looking clothes, and shopping in the girl's department (the boys skatepants with pockets and jokey T-shirts were her favorite). Shop for a cologne you like and wear a light scent of it when you feel like it. Would you like nail polish? Begin with clear, then explore other colors for fun. You can do this at home and not have to wear it outside if it doesn't feel right. In fact, the biggest part of 'girlification' happens on the inside, where your feelings and thoughts are. It's the 'you' inside that's really receiving the change, then it shows on the outside. Think about and notice: what are the things that make you FEEL feminine? Invest in the girl inside, and don't forget, ATTITUDE!
2007-01-10 02:40:24
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answered by Zeera 7
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I say, be yourself. But if you really want to break out of the tomboy phase, I wish I knew how old you were, because maybe you are going through a phase right now in your life that will pass. But I can't say for sure. Anyway, look in mags, and find some clothes that you think look nice, and start dressing that way. And hopefully you'll catch on to the new look, Good Luck!!!!!!
2007-01-10 03:08:11
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answered by suzanne_scorpio 2
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I don't know how old you are or what your family situation is, but I can tell you my daughters story. I have two boys and a girl. The girl is the youngest. She always wanted to go with us when I would take the boys to do what might be considered "boy" things. She was definitely a tomboy. Fishing, hunting, ball games, she had to go. Until she turned about 15. She started declining invitations to go with us as her attention was diverted to other pasttimes, usually with her girlfriends. It wasn't long before the last thing she wanted to do was spend a day with the "boys". Well, she's a beautiful, 24 yr old mother now and says she wouldn't trade those days with the boys for anything. Just be yourself, and the other things will take care of themselves.
2007-01-10 02:28:28
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answered by Knowitall 3
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i know how you feel. i've been a tomboy all my life, and still am. i'm 25, dont wear heels, dont wear dresses or skirts.
i started with at least wearing fitted jeans that make me feel more feminine. then some fitted tops. i used to wear baggy baggy everything (but then again, i was in the grunge era).
but in the long run, dont force yourself to be what you're not. you'll attract the wrong people and feel worse about yourself. just start small and work your way up.
do you wear make-up? why not go to a department store (or mac if you have one of those, they rock) and get a make-over. its fun, its free and you can see how well you can clean up :)
2007-01-10 02:12:27
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answered by Anonymous
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I change according to who I'm with. At school and around other girly girls i am a total prep. but when i hang with guys I have a huge tomboy side. Try to balance them out and ease yourself into a personality this isn't fake but allows you to be more feminine. But most of all be yourself.
2007-01-10 08:29:20
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answered by Monkey 2
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being a tomboy has it's advantages you know. you are already a girl obviously so maybe just be a little more feminine.
2007-01-10 03:15:45
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answered by racer 51 7
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Crazy question. A girl is a girl. I'll leave it to the preps. :)
2007-01-10 02:10:02
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answered by Anonymous
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