he wrote back saying:ur like dat for everything ur car the way you looklike my mom says if you dont love urself nobody will love you, you got low selfesteam your always saying ur fat n ugly people r wat they think me personaly i can live with your looks its negative
people i cant be around with rember that
2007-01-10 02:00:52 · 9 answers · asked by Jesenia O 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stay in school.
2007-01-10 02:04:07 · answer #1 · answered by Laura C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is being very honest with you. No man wants to be around a negative woman. A husband is not responsible for your self-esteem. You are. That's why it's called "self" esteem. Your husband is not your counselor or cheerleader. He is a man that has needs. One of those needs is to come home and be around someone that has energy that he can feed off of and not negative energy that takes away from him.
That's why it is important for you to love yourself. If you don't love yourself, why would you expect anyone else to love you? But if you love yourself, that love will overflow into other people's lives. You have no love overflowing into your husband's life.
I suggest you heed his advice and do what it takes to build your self esteem and be positive. This will take getting out and exercising and taking care of yourself. Stop putting all of the responsibilty of the relationship on your husband. If you continue, he will leave you.
2007-01-10 10:11:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to change your attitude, seems like your guy is fed up about you and ready to depart from you.. Before you get again cranky and talk a bunch of silly things, think what the side effects will be. If you love your husband then care for him and respect him and treat him well, otherwise there are lots of sweet ladies out looking to love someone else.. You are playing with fire.
2007-01-10 10:07:30 · answer #3 · answered by getting_a_new_life 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To get an intelligent answer, you have to pose an intelligent, or at the very least, a readable question.
Your lack of punctuation and inclusion of so much Internet slang (laziness is a better term - typing in one or two extra letters can't be that much of an ordeal) make whatever statement you were trying to make almost illegible.
It's not what's on the outside that counts; its how you see yourself on the inside.
2007-01-10 10:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am confused about some of your writing. What I did get was that you have a problem with yourself, you need to like yourself before others can like you. Maybe talk to your parents about this and if you can't do that. Talk to a friend or counseler cause you need some help.
2007-01-10 10:12:25 · answer #5 · answered by ?Sherbear ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my... This is a mess, what in the world are you talking about. I agree, you really must stay in school and start paying attention. Especially to your English teacher....
2007-01-10 10:08:05 · answer #6 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok he told you what is bothering him---your negativity! youre bringing him down---youre a bummer----so now what? stop being negative----you have to work on being positive----i dont know anyone who enjoys being around negative people--this is not to say that we all cant say things that bother us--but if its all negative then thats a problem---lighten up----your man wants you to be pleasant----he apparently loves u for who you are--good luck
2007-01-10 10:07:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea what you are trying to say. Please edit your question so we can see where one sentence ends and the next begins.
2007-01-10 10:04:55 · answer #8 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
drugs are bad mm-kay
2007-01-10 10:06:26 · answer #9 · answered by Olivia's Mama 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋