Do u think he will be unfaithful again?

Question

I met this gut through an online police forum...he is a copper. He did tell me he had a gf but that she was ok with us chattinng. She went away on holiday for 7 months. So we have become close online. We started getting really intimate....letting each other know what we like (sexually). I know its wrong f me...but I started falling for him...even without a picture . I showed him a picture of me. We didn't engage in anything but a bit of intimate talk as well as everyday talk. He said mid way through asking me to describe how I would turn him on.....that sooner or later our intimate chats would have to stop. I know I have no right really to be hurt....but I am. I asked him to block me from chatting and then I changed my mind. I really can not not handle rejection at all. Do you think its likely he will do this again with another girl sometime in the future. He said he loves his gf and always will. But he said that he felt bad ....mid way after asking me to describe how i'd turn him on.

He is a copper...and he works with colleagues who all bed jump with each other. He said he doesn't do it and when he marries he only wants to do it once. I just want to know where did his concious go for the months that we spent chatting. This guy is due to meet his gf for a few weeks and I just get the impression he has all of a sudden grown a conciousence so that he doesn't feel bad. All I really want to know...as I'm new to all this...is do you think he is likely at some point to cheat again?

Answer 1

You were a bit of fun while his gf was away. He sounds weak - probably faithful while she's there, but would perhaps be persuaded by someone else if she wasn't. Forget him, and be happy he's not your bf.

Yes, he'd do it again - maybe not right away, but sometime.

Answer 2

Unfortunately its impossible to tell but really whether he will cheat on his girlfriend again or not isn't the issue here. The issue is you are falling for a man you never even met. Not only that but he is in a committed and loving relationship which he is not prepared to give up. He was obviously lonely whilst his girlfriend is away and things went slightly too far. He realised this and stopped you from going any further in the intimate chat you were having. He was just using you and you need to get some self respect and stop chatting to him. I know its hard to handle the rejection but you need to face up to the fact he was always going to reject you over his girlfriend. You need to forget him and move on before you get hurt even more.

Answer 3

Are we classifiying chatting as cheating now? And, he's not even married. I really don't see what he did as all that wrong. And, I don't see a huge problem if he did it again. Of course, I suppose this is all dependent on how secure his girlfriend is, and whether or not she would classify it as cheating. I'm not saying that she should be happy about the situation or anything. I just don't see it as a deal breaker. I understand he felt bad, but feeling bad about flirting, and feeling bad about cheating are very different things.

Answer 4

Sweety ...men are men. They dont think with their brains. They feel a little trash talk on here isn't cheating but fun and get's them off. So YES, I believe cop or no cop he's here to play. Most men and yes..most women are. But eventually u will find 1 u develope feelings for and you will get hurt because your really feeling it and it is a game to them. You either accept it's all pretend and just enjoy the fantasy or if you cant do that then stay away from men like that on here.

Answer 5

Men do this sort of thing all the time. They like flirting and keeping options open. They can actually 'cheat' and still love and care for their main partner who they are not planning to give up or dump - they can love that person and have dalliances with other people.

Its not a anti-man thing - its just men and women are different and they have different needs - men like hunting - alot!!!!

Dont accept being a bit on the side - it is very unlikely to go any further than that - believe me - you are kidding yourself.

Answer 6

let me put it to you this way! Watch out. and yes he will do it with other girls. my EX son in law, Did it for the four years he and my daughter were toghether. YOu would be amazed at the excuses he came up with. 1. thrill of the and the chase . 2 they started and he was just going along 3. He never meant to hurt her or her to find out. he even fooled around on gay sites. hes reasoning for that he want to get them in a position to embaress them. I think once they start the can't or wont stop even for love.

Answer 7

adult males in basic terms like ladies can cheat or be devoted. Its a call all of us have! If the guy quite desires to be with you, he will substitute his techniques and talk over with you, be uncomplicated with you, and not in any respect cheat on you returned. i think of absolutely everyone merits a 2d and doubtless even a 0.33 danger. This guy or woman does no longer difficulty dropping time with you except he had emotions for you, so in basic terms supply him a wager. no person's appropriate!!

Answer 8

He hasn't actually cheated. You've never actually met the guy so you need to get hold of yourself and move on.

Get dressed and go out to meet a guy instead of talking to a pc monitor.

Answer 9

Many things we consider taboo become less offensive after we have done the deed once. Cheating is one of those things. The more you do it the easier it becomes.

So what do you think?

Answer 10

I believe he will. Someone who really loves his girlfriend and respects their relationship wouldn't of even started with you. He obviously has some sort of issues. I would just leave him alone and find someone who will be devoted to you and only you.