I ejaculated early last night, my wife was not satisfied, actully i was not completely involved in the intercourse, i was having few office stuff running in my brain, whith few anxieties.After that we continued looking the arousing stories and photos, then we tried after some time, as i want to satisfy my wife, again i was not able to erect, and it was more bad than previous. Please suggest me, what one can do in this situation, and again i don't wanted to say no to my wife as she was quite arouse that day..
2007-01-10 01:53:27 · 13 answers · asked by yjph 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She will get over it-no one can be 100 percent all of the time
2007-01-10 02:01:23 · answer #1 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, I've found that for men, intercourse is 70% visual and 30% physical.
For women intercourse is 70% mental and 30% physical. Use you other sexual organ, your mouth, the stimulate her mentally and physically long before you engage in your 70% and 30% intercourse.
Believe me, those photos are stimulating you more than the stories are stimulating her. Maybe you should read more of the stories and leave the pictures alone all together. Give her a head start.
You'll find that she'll be satisfied long before you even think about it. In the meantime, make a doctor's appointment for some levitra.
2007-01-10 10:13:15 · answer #2 · answered by Lemar J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you should do....is after work go to the gym and do some cardio such as the elliptical or treadmill do some running for at least 45 to an hour long. This will help with any built up anxiety and will help recap your day. It's a good stress reliever. That way when it's time to spend it with your wife you can give it a 100% and please her too.
2007-01-10 10:01:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time let her get satisfied first!!! my hubby and I kept having this problem and I don't know how he does it now but he always holds off untill I get mine. So their is some way for you men to control it. If she is really aroused then it would be upsetting to not get satisfied. Romance her tonight to make up for it.
2007-01-10 10:01:20 · answer #4 · answered by ?Sherbear ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you know where the G-spot is located in your wife's vagina?
You need to find it! If you stimulate this while doing oral sex it is intense!!!!!!! I know it's deep and anterior. You have to do a finger like come here motion. Your wife will LOVE you for this. Tell her you read about it or she'll think you are cheating.
Google g-spot...
2007-01-10 10:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by Jeanmarie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are ways other than intercourse to satisfy your wife. Try oral or manual stimulation.
2007-01-10 09:59:05 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're stressed out, then there's no reason that you can't tell her what's going on in your head. if she's understanding, she'll sit down and talk to you about it, and then maybe after that, you'll feel better and you two can get busy :)
2007-01-10 10:55:27 · answer #7 · answered by john_deeregirl07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I give you props that you at least care that you didn't please her. There are men out there who only care about their needs. I would say focus completely on her wants and desires and shut everything else out of your mind. Then when she comes, release it!
2007-01-10 16:57:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man isn't this a bit private to be asking here? We don't need to be in the bedroom with you....ugh.
2007-01-10 10:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by Sandy B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is very easy... use ur tongue early on and have her have several orgasms before u start.. she will be happy u will something else on ur mind..and everyone will be happy.
2007-01-10 10:21:33 · answer #10 · answered by ready_when_u_r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋