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My husband told me when we first met that he thought goth women were very sexy... he always complimented me. 2 1/2 years later he barely says anything and when he does say something he says "you are a dork" or "you look rediculous". Did he expect me to change after 2 1/2 years? I thought men did not like women to change and it seems as though he assumed that I would. Should I care about the way he wants me to look?

2007-01-10 01:05:40 · 8 answers · asked by spyder 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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Sometimes men just get lazy with the compliments. They figure that since they've said it many times before, it doesn't need to be said. Talk to him about it if it really bothers you. The worst thing you can do is to keep your feeling to yourself. Although you shouldn't care about how others see you, as a married woman I know how important it is for your husband to find you attractive. Its possible that his taste may have changed, but that doesn't mean he doesn't find you beautiful. Again, talk to him! Good luck, hon.

2007-01-10 18:49:40 · answer #1 · answered by Ophelia193 6 · 0 0

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2016-12-28 14:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

It may be that your husband is growing up and expects you to do the same. I'm not bashing who you are, just saying that the goth thing is USUALLY something epople "grow out of". Do YOU think you look ridiculous? If not, then screw him. I would talk to him about his change of heart, it may be something besides the goth thing or maybe he's gotten ragged on and doesn't want to take you out in public?

I'm not trying to be mean, but it seems this is the way people are. Just like the guy with the fat wife that gets ragged on...

2007-01-10 01:15:32 · answer #3 · answered by lookinforanswers 2 · 1 2

Did your hubby get a new job just recently , if he did he might being pushed into normals. my best friend was a goth she told me that in order for her to go to any office party she had to clean her self up and look like a woman . the job that her hubby was at ask him to tell his wife to to that. the cool this is he drop that job and now a tattoo artiest.

2007-01-10 01:14:24 · answer #4 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0 0

He probably thought it was a phase. Acceptable, but a phase. When I met my husband he was granola with a beard and long hair. He now works for a big corpration adn wears suits. If you don't want to change, leave now before kids and find someone who wants the same lifestyle. You don't want to be withsome one doesn't respect you, evidenced by his calling you a dork.

2007-01-10 01:17:23 · answer #5 · answered by tikki b 1 · 1 1

Well if it makes you feel better I think goth is hot

2007-01-10 01:10:53 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 6 · 1 0

well if you look any thing like your avatar i dont blame your husband if he not attracted i would run to.

2007-01-10 01:11:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

Divorce him... :D

2007-01-10 01:10:15 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1 3

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