Is it normal to spend two years, after breaking it off with someone, to try to achieve and prove yourself worthy again, not to them, but to the idea that someone got the best of you? Only to go for so long and then to get to a point where either you feel you achieved enough, or maybe the wounds just healed abit, or maybe your life circumstances just got better. Which do you think it is?
2007-01-10 00:33:03 · 6 answers · asked by steveo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I DON'T THINK IT;S SO MUCH PROVING YOUR SELF WORTH. i THINK IT HURT YOU. YOUR HURT & WONDERING WHATS WRONG WITH YOU AND WHY IT ENDED. YOU DONT NEED TO PROVE YOURSELF HUN, JUST BE YOU AND TRY TO FIND A NEW LOVE. THIS TIME WATCH HOW THINGS ARE GOING & LOOK FOR SIGNS OF SOMETHING WRONG. IF THERE SEEMS TO BE A PROBLEM TALK IT OUT. COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY TO A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP. DON'T BEAT YOURSELF UP OVER THE PAST JUST MOVE FORWARD AND THINK...HER LOSS.....GOOD LUCK.
2007-01-10 01:16:01 · answer #1 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am understand your point i spent a whole year before i started dating again and most times you just need another person to help u through the pain and make you feeling like living again
2007-01-10 00:41:55 · answer #2 · answered by sugargirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I spent three years alone after my divorce.....simply because when I did try to date I always compared everyone to my ex-wife.....which was not fair to the other women....so I spent time alone to get over it all.
So no nothing is wrong with it.
2007-01-10 00:37:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait 4 the right one
2007-01-10 00:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by Britbrat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
defo
2007-01-10 00:41:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-01-10 00:38:00 · answer #6 · answered by Frann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋