If I understand your question, he will take care of himself, recognize that something as important as finding a real life mate has got to take time, and move on. Perhaps he will also evaluate his method of search.
I am assuming that when you say "love" and not merely sex or lust or something, you mean the search for a lady who can be your partner for life. Who can be the mother of your children and the matriarch of the dynasty you hope to found. However grand or modest the dream, we are talking a real life mate, not just getting laid, right?
It follows that you need to know what sort of woman would be the right sort to be your mate. From this is follows that you need to know who you are and who you want to become. Men are always in a state of becoming, but before he has a partner, he must know who he wants that partner to be in partnership with.
For example, a man who dreams of building a family business, with his wife and children all involved, needs a very different sort of wife from one who is engaged in a profession which takes him out of town on occasion, and who needs most of all a wife who can function without his constant guidance, and who does not cause problems the minute his back is turned. And a man who likes a high level of independence and mobility needs a lady who finds that sort or life adventurous for her own reasons, and has her own reasons for wanting to partner with him.
And so on. I cannot here characterize all the variations, but you need to know who you are before you can find who The Goddess of Love may have for you.
2007-01-10 00:41:05
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answered by auntb93again 7
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I don't understand the question, do you mean you couldn't perform and were a failure, if so, there's medication you can get for that, mainly Viagara.
Do you mean your love is gone, if so, you have to let go and not think about it too much, it will be real hard at first, but time will heal and in the meantime go out with friends, go to a movie, join a gym, just being around other people will take your mind off. Just don't go to places where you used to go with her, don't listen to love songs, take it one day at a time, trust me it will get better. Although she'll be in your memory forever and later in life you can think of her objectively and can be happy that you had that experience. Think of the quote; Don't cry because it's gone, smile because it happened.
Good Luck to you.
2007-01-10 00:40:36
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answered by Mightymo 6
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absolutely everyone seems to be in-titled to an opinion & i'm happy to work out human beings talk out on what they suspect in. properly i will enable you recognize i'm a be liver of Jesus, God, & the Holy Spirit. in spite of the shown fact that i'm no longer a Christian nor do I call myself a Christian. i'm an entire blown Jesus Freak! meaning i like all! besides, decrease back on your different statements. You cant blame love for peoples strikes, or renditions of what they think of love is. in case you will, locate & borrow a clean King James version Bible & circulate to 1Corinthians 4: 13. examine that finished verse. that's what LOVE extremely is. in case you may say you kind that , then you definately will understand what actual love quite is. that's a tough one to persist with. yet that's what it takes. that's the actual love !
2016-12-12 08:17:51
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answered by ? 4
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probably drinks, sleeps and looks for a new one.
2007-01-10 00:36:52
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answered by tolga d 1
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