2007-01-10 00:23:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
It's like driving, the less you do it the more hassle it becomes.
2007-01-10 00:28:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i was the same and i'll tell you how i got it back again.
I talked to my partner that we should try different things in the bedroom as, being honest, having kids has made me feel uncomfortable with the way i look and am always feeling tired(im a woman by the way). we decided to pack the kids away to the mothers for the weekend where we both went to a nice relaxing country hotel with pleanty of leisure facilities so we wouldnt have to leave the hote. we went from the friday to sunday. before we went we popped into a sex shop and bought a few things we wouldnt have imagined of buying before. they were only little things such as a book on different positions, handcuffs, massage oils, blind folds, just small things that we could experiment with. we took these things to the hotel where we were like a couple of teenagers for that weekend. when we were back home with the kids of course things went back to the same daily routine but we never forget that weekend and even tired the sex toys etc back at home.
my advise would be 'both of you go away for the weekend in a quiet hotel with your little presents youve bouth from sex shop and go have some fun. you have to relax to be able to be in the mood- once your away from all the bills and work etc its different and when you get home you'll still have that excitement as when you were away because youll never forget that weekend and you'll have come back with a healthy sex life.
dont be afraid of trying out different things in the bedroom
2007-01-10 00:36:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your sex drive can dwindle as you get a little older & have kids, you have more responcibilities & less time to relax & be sexy. the cure could be to call on your partner to help around the house so you are less tired at bed time, also if you have kids see if you can get grandparents or aunts & uncles to have them overnight occasionally. this allows you to relax & get down to it without fear of interruption.
2007-01-10 01:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by Because I Said So 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you taking any meds? could be making your pickle too dizzy
2007-01-10 00:39:28 · answer #4 · answered by Eric the Great *USA* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex toys?
2007-01-10 00:27:14 · answer #5 · answered by missree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drink some Red Bull...........
2007-01-10 00:27:09 · answer #6 · answered by Puma 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
porn?
2007-01-10 00:29:13 · answer #7 · answered by Lord Onion 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋