for me,i just try to make them understand even how long it takes.
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2007-01-10 00:15:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i cannot force them to understand,
so i let them be who they are, no
one needs to understand my feelings
because my feelings are only essential
to my own symbols, not necessary to
express all to expose the whole of me
toward someone else, everyone has
their own inner feelings that even i may
not understand, we all have our very own
innate truth infinite only to ourselves.
2007-01-10 08:14:39 · answer #1 · answered by ♪σρսϟ яэχ♪ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With my husband, I usually realize that trying to make him understand is a hopeless cause. I eventually give up and find some other way to deal with my feelings... like talking to a close friend. I also write in my journal a lot. Long hot baths help. I also at times go driving for a while in my car and scream at the top of my lungs. LOL.
2007-01-10 00:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on who the person is for me. With some people, I don't waste too much time on it; if they don't understand then they don't understand. With my good friends I try my best to help them understand how I feel, but I also know that I do not always understand myself, and I use the best words I know to get my point across.
2007-01-10 00:27:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is better to understand than to be understood. Anyway, that's what the prayer says that my sponsor keeps telling me about!
2007-01-10 00:20:15 · answer #4 · answered by Joni J 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I just don't talk about anything with them because it's not worth the argument it leads to.
2007-01-10 00:22:33 · answer #5 · answered by K-E-G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me too, i just feel the need to keep explaining till they get it cause sometimes i feel it's my fault, maybe I'm not explaining it right
2007-01-11 00:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by Carole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooohh good one!
I deal with that every dam day with my husband!
after 18 years, its safe to say, He aint ever gonna try to understand!
2007-01-10 00:22:15 · answer #7 · answered by Crissy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont bother telling them my feelings.I just talk about normal stuff with them and find someone better later to tell my feelings to.
2007-01-10 00:20:06 · answer #8 · answered by peaches 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's not that important to me that people understand me....at the end of the day i'm the one that has to live with myself
2007-01-10 00:37:56 · answer #9 · answered by panamm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do that with my husband but with everyone else, I just stop telling them my feelings eventually.
2007-01-10 00:19:35 · answer #10 · answered by duvaldiva.com 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋