Please read my last three questions. Please tell me what to do to get the man of my dreams back. My kids need a good father figure and he IS the one. Why is he making me and him miserable by not coming back to me?
2007-01-10 00:09:02 · 15 answers · asked by Catina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YOU ARE Phsychotic!!!!! His wife needs to kick your A S S !! I would love to do it for you after reading your questions!!
2007-01-10 00:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave this man alone. You pursued a married man to be a father to your children and that' crazy. It was a sexual relationship, nothing more. He's home with his wife now and he doesn't want you. If you continue to bother these people, you can be brought up on charges of harrassment. Do you have the money, or the time for this? Leave the man alone; he doesn't want you.
I can imagine how you feel, having 3 children to raise alone, but this is how the cards fell, madam. You can't expect another woman's husband to pick up the slack. Instead of losing sleep over this, put more effort in raising your kids. Go back to school, if that's possible. Don't make a fool of yourself with another woman's husband next time. As you can see, it's not worth the pain.
Understand that when you are the single mother of 3 children, most men will only use your body and move on. You have to be selective. Don't deal with married men, unless you're willing to be hurt again. And don't get involved with the slick, party guys. Look for a more mature, serious man--one who will have compassion for your situation. Also know that the man of your dreams may be a fantasy. This guy cheated on his wife, used your body, dropped you, and went back home. Is that really a dream man, or is it a nightmare? Get on with your life, girlfriend.
2007-01-10 09:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the only one miserable here is you. He's told you he loves his wife and he even went thru counseling with her to make his marriage work. If he really loved you as you think he does he would have come back to you but he hasn't. He did keep telling you NO but you wouldn't accept it until he did sleep with you. Face reality and accept he doesn't love you and doesn't want you. Find a man that does love you and wants you and leave the married man alone. Learn this lesson. Very few married men that step out on their wives actually leave them for the other woman.
2007-01-10 08:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to get a good psychologist and maybe even a psychiatrist for awhile. It might even be a good idea to arrange alternative care for your daughters incase you require hospitalisation. Can they stay with your parents or the father(s)? You need help and you need to leave that man alone. He made a mistake and probably just said he loved you to shut you up. Besides, you only had sex 8 times in 9 months. That's not very often and probably suggests that he didn't really like you, but just had nothing better to do those times.
2007-01-10 08:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dear,
Let the peace of God be with you.
The questions seem confusing.Is he your x-hasband or you just to marry sombody's hasband?Whatever it may be,I advise you to pray a lot to avoid this feelings.If you legally divorced and he is engaged and started a new life, why are you spoiling his life?It was good if you managed to sustain your marraige from the beginning.If you did not marry him then please be careful he has his own life.God created for him the wife he is living with right now.This is totally against the words of God.One man is for one woman and vise versa.It is adultary to think others hasband/wife for you.On the other hand if you are not married at all and wants to have a good hasband,please pray carefully.As I said earlier God created a man who can be your future hasband.Believe only one man to be your hasband.When the time comes everything will be in order.
Let God help you.
2007-01-10 08:58:38 · answer #5 · answered by girum_tadesse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to give him the truth and an altimatum and if he acts like he doesn't care honey ....been there done that... 6 years later met the real right guy and never been happier. Act like you are happier than he is.... and eventually you will be... i swear... and i'm only 25...i never believed this until i met the man i'm with. he's 35 and perfect and loves my very soul! And, btw ... the a s s hole that responded first needs to pull the c o c k out of his a s s... b/c it's perfectly normal to feel the way you do when you care about someone deeply. i am also a mother of 2.
2007-01-10 08:18:29 · answer #6 · answered by drea_07_0601 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If your kid need a father figure...
What about HIS kid needing HIS own father?
Leave those persons alone!
It never happens on Yahoo that so much people say the same.
We, all of us know you are badly busy breaking someone else life...
Leave them alone.
2007-01-10 09:12:53 · answer #7 · answered by klaartedubois 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look, if the guy was interested in you he'd be with you. But he ISN'T for obvious reasons. Wake up!
And what kind of role model to your kids are you being if your idea of "LOVE" is manipulating and lying your way back into his life?
2007-01-10 08:17:54 · answer #8 · answered by Ella 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You sound pathetic and desperate. Why would you want to chase after some guy. If the was THE ONE, you wouldn't have to be asking these questions. Your energy would be better spent making yourself available to someone who DOES want you, rather than chasing this one.
2007-01-10 08:35:47 · answer #9 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
catina this man is not your and he is not your kids father
if you were a good person your kids would not need a good father they would have had a good father already
what make you think that he will be a good father to your children
2007-01-10 08:19:46 · answer #10 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋