this makes me to hesitate to speak casual with others...
how shall i overcome this?
2007-01-09 23:59:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Stop giving a crap about how others think of you.Yeah I know I say it like it can just magically happen.
2007-01-10 00:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by retrodragonfly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, learn to tell yourself that you are not the only person who is facing this problem. Find out what cause such sensitiveness. Is it due to your strong ego or is it due to inferiority complex?
After analysing it, set an example of whatever ticks your sensitiveness, and then pretend that it is somebody elses' problem. Try to figure a solution as to how can you help that other person to overcome it and act according to that. I think after some time, you will be able to control yourself better.
Life will definately be funnier and lighter if you can take things easy. Enjoy life!!
2007-01-10 11:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by yeng mee k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong in being sensitive, but it is not the same as being shy. You know many great people were very shy when they were young. Whatever you are, just be happy with yourself!
2007-01-13 11:46:35 · answer #3 · answered by Mental Space 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can Join a Toastmasters club,this will help you along with that little bit of hesitation in speaking. you will be with a crowd who like you want to improve their speaking skills.
2007-01-10 08:13:53 · answer #4 · answered by BONES 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have a competition with anybody in this world . You are competing with yourself . You should set your own targets and try to achieve them . You have to be better than what you were a day before.
2007-01-10 09:29:02 · answer #5 · answered by VIJAY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, people think what they may have to say...is not worth validating, or it has no merit.
But, this is only showing...how much they really value themselves, and their ideas.
Start validating your own thoughts and ideas, and you'll start to expect others to do the same.
Honor yourself, and others will too.
2007-01-10 09:05:57 · answer #6 · answered by dearreal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep using Yahoo Answers...
2007-01-11 10:22:59 · answer #7 · answered by Prasun Saurav 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are lacking knowledge and so you feel afraid to talk to others, read more and be smart.
2007-01-10 08:19:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop listening to braying donkeys.. Thats what you will never be able to please them.. So try to build up confidence and care a damn about others
2007-01-10 08:27:17 · answer #9 · answered by Bacti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋