2 start wid i gt in2 a relationship wen i ws least prepared.said 'i luv u' wen i hardly meant it.continued 4 mnths witout telling him dt i dnt love him.hooked up wid another guy whom i really love..lately i'v been ignoring this guys calls.msgs n postponing meetings jst 2 get rid of him sum how.still he like calls everyday.bt now i cnt take it ne more,,its kinda suffocating.bt at d same time i dnt hav d guts 2 tell him dt i like sum1 else n i really did nt mean all dt i said
help!!!!!!!!wat do i do??
2007-01-09 23:26:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well you have certainly been old and stupid enough to get yourself into the situation so you should at least have the decency to put this poor guy out of his misery by either telling him the truth or a white lie to save his feelings. It is always preferable to do this kind of thing face to face, but if you don't have the bottle an email, text message or voicemail is so much more preferable than him not knowing. Some men just don't seem to get the hint when you ignore them. People fall in and out of love all the time, just tell him that you liked him very much and you thought you were in love but now you have met someone else and don't feel that way anymore. Say thanks for the nice times you had together but you don't want to see him anymore. DO NOT give him any glimmer of hope as he will hang onto it like a drowning man hangs onto a plank of wood. You know it's the right thing to do and the sooner you do it the sooner you can get on with screwing up the next blokes life. :o)
2007-01-09 23:39:25 · answer #1 · answered by phil.morris121 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow!! Tell him the truth, it might hurt him a while, but he´ll get through... keeping silence and no - answering is never a solution.
Tell him, that you are so sorry, but you don´t feel anything for him...
Anyway, you´re young and things like that happen... so, don´t think that you´re a bad person...
Just finish everything with this guy and make it clear, tell him not to call you again....
2007-01-10 08:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anita P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth. coz whatever you do sum1 will get hurt it's inevitable. but if you contniue to lie not only will you hurt him and yourself, but you'll hurt the guy you love as well. you'll end up having no one. be honest. someone will get hurt but at least you no longer bear the burden of deception and you give ur bf another chance to find sum1..
2007-01-10 07:53:24 · answer #3 · answered by deynibeybi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point only the truth will do dear. Obviously lies hasn't helped so try being truthful and honest with yourself and others.
2007-01-10 07:32:39 · answer #4 · answered by singsong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better tell him the truth. dun drag on coz it will lead to more prob. lying is not worth it. makes u feel bad abt urself, affects ur self esteem .. ... stop now......he wun blame u for telling the truth
2007-01-10 07:33:00 · answer #5 · answered by pinkbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget guys and take a course in spelling and grammar.
2007-01-10 07:35:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing u can do. Just let him know the truth. He deserves to know the truth.
2007-01-10 09:57:55 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u better mean gal
it's ur punishment
have it.
2007-01-10 07:41:06 · answer #8 · answered by Atul Barapatre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send your question to him
2007-01-10 07:31:19 · answer #9 · answered by booge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋