do you really like ur men doin porn or is it somethin you just put up with because you cant change things? if you had the choice, & ur man never wanted porn would you still like to watch it yourself?
or would you prefer a world without it.
think deep about this question before you answer please.
thanx
2007-01-09 23:18:26 · 15 answers · asked by pooped_over 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes! my wife does exist & shes the best ever. our sex life is great & we have sex toys & stuff. shes real good in bed but i just look at porn. i guess maybe your right, i must have a problem with it somewhere.
2007-01-09 23:30:49 · update #1
My husband and I both gave up porn because it is a lot healthier to keep it out of our marriage. There are other ways to spice up a sex life than watching porn. Also, we don't masturbate because we have each other so there is no need for porn. It is so nice to have a husband who isn't obsessed with porn. You definitely feel like you have him all to yourself and you don't have to share him with those porno chicks.
2007-01-09 23:23:05 · answer #1 · answered by His Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well at last we have a question about whether girls like porn too....all we ever have is the knowledge that Guys can't live without it...on a personal level I think porn for a single guy is fine if that's what he wants....but once he gets married & makes a commitment, then porn shouldn't enter the relationship....unless of course the female's happy as well....I don't watch the stuff myself & I believe it causes more problems world wide than we're led to believe...but that's another thought for another day.
I wouldn't care if we had a world without porn....in fact I reckon a lot more marriages would be a lot more settled & have a lot less to be breaking up for.
I think most women accept it because they have no choice so just deal with it somehow by fooling themselves that at least hubby isn't "doing it with a real woman"
So my answer is....no I don't like porn & no I don't think it's normal....women are brainwashed into believing it's a "guy thing" & just go with the flow
I wonder how many guys would like it if it was dominated by males rather than females & was a favourite pass time of their g/f's or wives....mmmm...now that would be an interesting question don't you think?
2007-01-11 19:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by Funky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I could do without porn and for a long time I watched with my husband and tolarated him looking at it because I didn't think it was fair to change it. But now I realized what isn't fair is for me to feel inadiquate to compete with porn girls and the way the do things. My husband and I have a great sex life and we experiment with lots of things, so I would prefer a world without porn.
2007-01-10 08:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by Trisha 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I doesn't bother me either way, I can take it or leave it but my B/F likes it sometimes and we do watch it together from time to time
The way i see it, i would rather he do that when I am not around rather than cheat. If my man never wanted porn i would think something was wrong with him, but as long as i am satisfied i don't have a problem with it.
as far as not having any porn in the world i would not agree with. There are a lot of people making a living at it and if they can than so be it. Besides, my b/f and i have experimented with some of the stuff we have seen in movies and such and it was fun some of it worked some of it didn't.
What do you think about it? after all you asked the question.
2007-01-10 07:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by Melanie T 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i would not have a problem watching it myself but i probably would have a problem with my hubby, or boyfriend watching it for the simple fact that i dont look like a porn star and i dont have sex they way they do, it makes me insecure to think that my BF thinks i can do whatever they do and that i shud look like them, (even though he doesnt think that) it sits in the back of my mind any way
i wouldnt have a prob watching it 2gether though that cud be fun
and it wouldnt bother me if porn was gone at all cuz there's always my boyfriend
i think wives dont like there husbands watching it because there married so they made a more powerful commitment and wives probably think its a form of adultry....
2007-01-10 07:24:09 · answer #5 · answered by Irish Lassey Sammi 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I got married when I was 19 and it was a BIG problem...I think maybe I wasn't mature enough at the time. At this point (8) years later I don't think I would care if my mate would watch it with me. If they were constantly looking at it...alone then I think it would be a problem.
2007-01-10 07:22:59 · answer #6 · answered by texascomet 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can do without porn..
if he has me, why watch another woman, when he can see and touch me...
as long as he plays like a porn star in the bedroom...lol
2007-01-10 07:22:29 · answer #7 · answered by The Chesire Cat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it is weird. I would prefer a world without it. My boyfriend is like me...we prefer the "real thing".
2007-01-10 07:22:45 · answer #8 · answered by Susan S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your hopeless obsession with porn is precisely why it is an insidious evil. I pity you, but I really pity your poor wife (if she exists).
2007-01-10 07:23:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you just want to find some women who aren't against porn. Very clever. Thumbs way up! Clever, clever.
2007-01-10 08:25:02 · answer #10 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋