please help i dont know what to do
2007-01-09 23:17:27 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
give him the positive test stick, thats what i did!
2007-01-09 23:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by LISA S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, remind yourself that he is 50% responsible for this pregnancy. So however you choose to tell him, keep that in mind and stop thinking you should be worrying at all.
If you want to tell him in a 'get it over fast' kind of way, then write him a letter. He can't interrupt you or storm off because he didn't like what you said. And this way you get to let him know how you feel about the news, which could help.
If you want a sweet way of breaking the news, then buy him a fathers day card. When he opens it he will firstly remind you it's not fathers day (men are silly lol) He will then begin to get the message, and depending on what you write inside the card, something simple like "Can't wait to meet you Daddy, Love Bump xx" It could be a lovely moment between you and your partner, Good luck x
2007-01-10 07:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by katie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have a healthy and trusting relationship, it should not be too difficult. You appear to be apprehensive about telling him. Does your angst perhaps lie in rejection? Just tell him - it doesn't matter how or where you do it, the surrounding and manner in which you say it does not change the facts. If he was led to believe you were 'safe', then I completely understand your concern. Don't wait too long. Tell him sooner rather than later, so that you can start dealing with this. GOOD LUCK
2007-01-10 07:35:49 · answer #3 · answered by Bite Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say " look i have been stressing on how 2 tell u so ........ I Am Pregnant". If he is really in love with u he will accept the fact that u r pregnant. dont be scared just tell him b 4 u hurt yourself by keepin it a secret
2007-01-10 09:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by Ebaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which half? top or bottom, the top should kinda know but you legs and rude bits will need to be told as they will have a shock when they are hoisted apart and a baby pops out!
I would just tell them straight out, if your really scared give them a call on the phone!
2007-01-10 07:23:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if he loves you he would understand it takes two for a baby not just you, tell him thqat you are in a calm way or even so blurt it out, you shouldn't keep it away for your own good, pressure, stress will not help you or the baby. Good luck
2007-01-10 07:33:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
can either tell him, put a notice on the fridge , send him a text saying hello daddy, buy him a little baby gift if hes smart he'll work it out
good luck
2007-01-10 10:30:59 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥™Tia™♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sit down with them and blurt it out.. its as much there problem/issue as it is yours and it sounds like you need there support and thoughts on the issue so the sooner you do it the better.. i dont think there is any easy way of doing it?! so just go for it.. best of luck
2007-01-10 07:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by peachesandcream 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell them sit them down and tell them you will probably find that they have an idea anyway and are feeling the same way as you about how to approach it.The sooner you do it the longer you have to sit and talk about your feelings and what you want to do good luck!
2007-01-10 07:30:29 · answer #9 · answered by callum5415 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buy a peice of baby clothing, wrap it up, and give it to him. Or the pregnancy test can be left in the bathroom where he can find it.
2007-01-10 07:23:20 · answer #10 · answered by moose on the loose 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them, whats the worst that can happen, unless you fall into the preteen section of this page.
2007-01-10 07:20:15 · answer #11 · answered by Chris B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋