2007-01-09 23:02:39 · 10 answers · asked by Ronnie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you aren't sure after 3 years then this is not the person for you and difficult as it may be ; you should release her. Doubts now will only turn into resentments during the marriage.
2007-01-09 23:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you both know in your hearts that you want to spend the rest of your lives with each other. You are both faithful and honest with each other and can not bare to be apart. When you feel like this about your partner and he/she feels the same way, it is truly time for you to commit to marriage. Don't do it until you both fully understand how the other feels and hopefully you will have a very long and happy marriage. Best of luck to you both.
2007-01-10 07:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm anti-marriage. Marriage is just waste of time and energy. Why do people loving each other "show commitment" by marrying? Love is love - it does not need some little paper to validate it!
2007-01-10 07:13:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, what's the difference between a long term relationship and marriage? Are you commited until you die? Do you share your bills? Do you live together and have sex? If yes, you're married and you didn't even know it.
2007-01-10 07:11:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is a question for you
what is the little paper going to do that will change your life
ANSWER NOTHING
if you are happy why do you need a paper to tell you that in the future you will have to spend 20 thousand dollars to walk away
you don't need to be married to put your love on your checking account or even get them on your insurance at work
you can have a party and invite all your friends and family and put a ring on her finger and tell them you will love and take care of her forever
you don't even need that paper to get her a credit card with the 2 of you on it or even be the beneficiary of your life ins policy
and finaly you don't even need that paper to be happy and in love and by the way she can even take your last name without the paper
2007-01-10 07:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you feel that you are ready to marriage and you both agree if its the right time.
2007-01-10 07:07:03 · answer #6 · answered by Denny O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are absolutely sure. That will be when you don't have to ask anyone. You will know. Took me and my Hubby 15 years.
2007-01-10 07:08:00 · answer #7 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you know that it is right, and its not even a question in your mind.
2007-01-10 07:06:54 · answer #8 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking us. Ask your partner. Do you feel it's time? Go ask.
2007-01-10 07:06:22 · answer #9 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when your both ready
2007-01-10 07:07:01 · answer #10 · answered by H0NEY~BEE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋