Is it because of.....Love?
2007-01-09 23:01:10 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
because they also took it away in the most selfish hurtful way imaginable
2007-01-09 23:05:55 · answer #1 · answered by .. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like your the one who,s hurting. It can be very confusing when you find yourself hating the person you once loved and made you happy . I think that sometimes it feels easier to hate someone if they have hurt you or you cant be with them any more I,ve only one bit of advice I can give you and that's ................ TIME IS A GREAT HEALER.... its probably hurts to much to think of the good times at the moment so to hate makes the pain seem less . Thing will get better take care x
2007-01-10 07:23:31 · answer #2 · answered by KATT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be because partners start to take each other for granted. The grass is always greener on the other side syndrome! I wonder how many people separate only to realise some time later that they made a huge mistake?
Communicate with each other and try to recapture some of what made your relationship special in the first place.
2007-01-10 07:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by Furball 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a line in a Kate Bush song that says "Is there so much hate for the ones we love?"
Never has a truer word ever been spoken. Humans are very good at hurting each other, maybe because it's easier than being nice, who knows??
2007-01-10 07:10:22 · answer #4 · answered by The Alchemist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a "fine line" between love and hate, and somebody just crossed it! In all honesty, you probably don't "hate" that person, but they have hurt you SO deeply that you can't stand the thought of being with them. As hard as it is......move on. There's somebody out there that will love you 24/7, 365.
2007-01-10 07:09:14 · answer #5 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think on the death of a relationship, u can begin 2 hate with the same concentration as u loved them!
ex-love is very very damaging 4 u & 4 them.
my advice is 2 try 2 avoid it as much as possible.
2007-01-10 07:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My personal take is that you are so used to being with that person you no longer see them as a seperate entity. You don't see them as an individual person. More like they are just an extension of you....
Plus, there is no excitement, nothing new....you know every in and out of them.
But, if it is turning into hate, maybe there is really something wrong.
2007-01-10 07:07:29 · answer #7 · answered by ♦♦pixiechix♦♦ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not say its because of love cz love does not hurt it rejoices in happiness. So the hutin u are feelin was inflicted upon u by yoself and partly your partner, bt as time goes on u will move on and grow to like dat person again and be friends again
2007-01-10 07:12:46 · answer #8 · answered by fishbone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hottest love turns to the coldest hate! Its because when people we love let us down we feel particularly bitter about it was we expected better of them. This can fester and turn into a real anger towards them.
2007-01-10 08:03:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we loved them and counted on them, we had hope and faith, and thought this person loved us unconditionally, but when we found out otherwise we first felt hurt over their actions, which often turns to hate after awhile. think it is because we did love them so much and put so much into the relationship, only to find out it was all in vain, and in the end we feel we were cheated and lied to, and mostly we are angry with ourselves for believing in them.
2007-01-10 11:40:18 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, love and hate are virtually the same thing. Both occupy your mind relentlessly, usually a single person causing it. The opposite of both is INDIFFERENCE. That is, when that person no longer occupies your mind.
2007-01-10 07:06:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋