We split up cos he is in his final year at uni&so busy& never had time to speak to me or c me. he was up every morning doin uni work till 3am so he gets the grade he wants.we both do not want 2split up but its not really gonna b possible cos he is so busy. we broke up for 5weeks but both really missed each other cos we wanna b together.we spoke&he wants to c how it goes until he finishes uni,so we wont b together but will still meet up when he has time.but it mean i will have to put up with only seeing him once every3weeks or so.which i will find it really hard cos i miss him so much and it makes me sad when i dont hear from him or c him for a while. would i b better just splitting up with him and not have to cope with only seeing him a bit?he said i can meet other ppl if i want to cos we are not together but he wants me to tell him if i do. is he just letting me down gently or what? shall i put up with not seeing him or just finish it and try and forget?either way i will be depressed
2007-01-09 22:52:56 · 4 answers · asked by iffa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe he isn't ready to take this relationship further because of his studies. u know how guys always want to build up their career first and dun have time for relationships. he allows u to see other guys maybe because he doesn't want limit your freedom & may expect you not to limit his too. guess u guys are not that close too. maybe u should ask him abt it and state yr concerns.
2007-01-09 23:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by pinkbear 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen this happened to me when I was in the University- what I did? I accepted it- but I continued a friendship- also I told my mom that if he called to talk with me that she was to say that I went out with friends- even if I was home - mom would say the same thing- "she's out with friend" and just left it at that. Three months went by when I received a visit from him telling me that he could not live without me- that he realized that I was very important to him. We married after we graduated and got jobs and up to now we have a 25 year marriage. So be strong- be true to yourself, stay as friends but don't give him to much info about what your doing - don't call him to give info of where your going or with whom- because if he doesn't want a complete relationship then say you'll be friends until he finishes university and then you take it from there.
Hope I helped a little..
2007-01-09 23:24:10 · answer #2 · answered by Taz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though you need to get on with your own life and not let it revolve around your boy friend.He appears to want the time and space to finish his time at Uni.Maybe you both need some time totally apart in order to decide.
2007-01-09 23:17:51 · answer #3 · answered by pigtailkid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up.
2007-01-09 22:57:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋