Im nine and a half weeks pregnant, im soo happy and have a partner who is as excited as me. I just fear the worst, im soo scared it will all go away... i started to get little twinges in my lower stomach where u would get period pains. They dont hurt but i know they are they, they just come and go. Is this normal? I had a scan at 7 and a half weeks, and we saw a heartbeat. Im not lettin it get ontop of me... but it is stoppin me from enjoyin it. Maybe when i get it 12 weeks i will feel more secure? I know soo many ppl that have suffered miscarriages and i know im at a point where the risk is very high xxxx
2007-01-09 22:24:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Hello,
I'm sure your fine... Its normal to have little pains as long as they don't become really bad... If your really that worried, go and see your doc. Have you spoken to your partner? I think if you haven't you should. He should be able to help you through this.
2007-01-09 22:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by Prettyinred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand completely, i was sooo scared about my pregnancy at first but your body goes through all sorts of changes the cramps/twinges you will be feeling in your stomach will be your uterus broadening for more room for the baby to grow, i am 29 weeks pregnant and have only just started to get a bump but feel allsorts of different twinges in my stomach especially now the baby is moving, you will probably feel more at ease after your next scan, seeing the baby is fine etc, i know it is hard to put these thoughts at the back of your mind because it always possible but if you ensure you are eating properly and not doing too much you should be fine,
I wish you all the best of luck in starting your familly - mummy!!
sarah
2007-01-09 23:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by sazhoey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel i felt exactly the same way wen i was pregenant and all those pains ur feeling are perfectly normal they are just ur body getting ready for the bub go and have a chat 2 ur doctor to get ome more reassurance coz thats all u need stress is a major contribution to miscarriage so ur doctor should be able to help once u get to 12weeks u will feel like there has been a huge weight off ur shoulders but u still have many of worries about other health probs the baby may have but just try not to worry too much i had the worst pregnancy not bad as in health reasons bad just didnt like being pregnant and all the things that go with it like swollen ankles mood swings always tired feeling hot in freezing cold weather etc etc but i LOVE being a mum to my perfect happy and healthy baby boy good luck !!!!
2007-01-09 22:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by wigglefart06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey MUM!
Dont worry. i know how excited and nervous you must be all at the same time. Your first is your first and you dont know what to expect which is the excitement of it all! -and the scary part!
Dont fear the worst, you will have a beautiful baby! Losing your baby, the chances are low. Just keep yourself healthy and in a healthy state of mind and youll do great. You will probably start to settle down a bit after youve had your 18-20 week ultrasound where they check/tell you that your baby is normal and everythings okay.
I wish u all the best, congrats! Fingers crossed you dont get morning/all day sickness, like i did! That is the worse part!
2007-01-09 22:35:20 · answer #4 · answered by Jordy[♥] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it makes u feel any better im on my 4th pregnancy now at 21wks and my second and third were very touchy from the minute i found out until i had them. i keep getting serve pain worse then period pain sometimes and bleeding but came through it. the best thing to do is, relax and enjoy it while u can otherwise u'll think where did it go. u will miss the whole enjoyment don't do that to urself. things will look up. just rest and be happy.
2007-01-09 23:24:08 · answer #5 · answered by Dolphin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is normal as your body is stretching to accomodate the baby and you may feel some cramping.
My best friend is currently going through the same thing, she is now 20 weeks pregnant, but she was paranoid when it happened to her and when she had her OB appointment they did a quick check of the baby and told her everything was normal and this was quite common.
Hope this puts your mind at rest and a huge congratulations to you and your partner!
2007-01-09 22:35:08 · answer #6 · answered by beetlechickster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to relax! Having seen the heartbeat makes the chances of miscarriage drop dramatically. I had the same fears while I was pregnant and found a great website that has tons of great info and allows you to talk to other woman who are due around the same time as you. Check it out at:
http://www.babycenter.com
Congrats on your pregnancy and try to stay positive. :)
2007-01-09 22:31:31 · answer #7 · answered by nicole_g20 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All those little twinges, and cramps you are feeling are perfectly normal. It is your nody getting ready to carry your baby! It is normal to be nervous and anxious during the first trimester. But haveing already seen and heard the heartbeat is great. Try to relax and enjoy your pregnancy, trust me it goes by all to fast!
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2016-10-06 22:43:24 · answer #9 · answered by laseter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello and congratulations. I have heard that you can get this pain around the time you are due to have your period, and it is normal. Please don't stress over it or it will make it worse. Your mind is such a powerful tool. If you think negative, negative things will happen. Put your feet up and enjoy the experience, as its the best thing that will ever happen to you.
2007-01-09 23:04:56 · answer #10 · answered by xxxOZxxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-09 22:33:45 · answer #11 · answered by Shelly7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋