my parents realy dislike this person but i don't want to lose him he is realy very nice...
2007-01-09 21:39:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dear if u feel true love for him, n same he feel true love for u , then both of u sit together , hold each others hands crossed ,look into each other eyes for 10 minutes , and then feel in ur heart that ur parents should accept him.
If ur love is true , and if that guy is the one meant 4 u by god u , ur parents would accept him without doing any efforts....
But if they dont then try to understand them ....why they r reacting so.....
It is also a God's Plan.... May be somebody else for u .
So never hurt ur Parents ....and dont marry him by running away...
" In every happiness we need our parent's true Blessings "
So pray god .....
I am a devotee of Amma Bhagwan who listen to whomsoever talks to them ...
so i am sending u link .pls go through it....
www.onenessuniversity.org
for details u can contact me...
Bye..
2007-01-09 22:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by Sam003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an element in love,which makes one blind towards any deficiency that the lover might have. This can be noticed by one who is not in love. Your parents have been seeing you since birth and hence they know your good and bad points. They are the best judge and all parents want to see their children happy. If this person is not acceptable to them there must be some overriding reason. You may not be able to see beyond your nose as you are enamoured by him. But your parents see through the unseen passages. Unless you have fallen head over heels, you try to see things through the perspective of your parents.
Be patient. Love takes many exams. You will have to through them.
2007-01-10 01:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry I coudnt understand you the first time. Are you gonna marry him or your parents.
I dont think your parents likes and dislikes has anything to do with marrieng a guy. I would say, if you both are comfertabel with each other, go for it.
2007-01-10 01:31:56 · answer #3 · answered by Shiv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents are really well wishers. Try to understand your parents point of view. I dont say to ignore your love life. you are in a real fix. Any one would be confused like you are now.
Some one have to sacrifice, either your parents, you or your fiancy. You are the person to convience and motivate. Then I will suggest, just keep trying and sure you will win.
Best of Luck.
2007-01-10 00:05:04 · answer #4 · answered by ga ga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u try to understand ur parents. just think y dont they like him?just give some time to all (ur parents and u) if he is really nice , ur parents will b convinced. but dont do anything in hurry which may spoil of ur life
2007-01-09 21:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by kashish d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart, if your parents truly love you and want your happiness, then they will learn to accept your decision. Its hard, but in the long run, you have to make YOU happy, not everyone else.
2007-01-09 21:49:05 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hiya, it is plenty for somebody to handle. i'm interior a similar boat which you're. different than my mom isn't in contract with him. my faith is a extensive remember additionally! I surely have chosen to take my possibilities in existence and stick to my heart! there's no longer too many those that come around who you could honestly say you honestly love. ultimately the two your mothers and dads will come to settle for the two one among you as one. i wish you stick on your heart. additionally while you're in any dobut purely come precise out and allow him understand the type you sense. ask what ever is on your recommendations. do no longer carry something returned. if he loves you like you're saying he does he will have no concern speaking out what ever concern you all could be dealing with. and yet another factor he desires to be a guy and stay his existence for himself because of the fact his mothers and dads can no longer make all of his decissions for something of his existence you sense me?! i you do no longer recommendations can we communicate approximately this by way of digital mail. i additionally am courious of what your faith is that if that's no longer too plenty info.
2016-10-06 22:42:22 · answer #7 · answered by laseter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him the way he loves you then F.U.C.K your parents! if they disagree they have every right to but don't let them interfere, interviene and control your life! you need to live the way that makes YOU happy. not your parents! its YOUR life and 30 years from now when they have passed away they won't be around anymore to live your life so what are you going to do then? if you truely do love this man then do not let your parents stand in your way! if he can support you and take care of you and u do love him fully and completely then MARRY HIM!!! tell your parents that it is in fact your life and you need to live it for yourself and not them. ask them to accept your decision and understand that they don't have to agree but they won't be tolerated to interefere. ask them to step aside because you are going to do what you think is best and they need to trust you.
2007-01-09 21:49:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what if they hate him... are they marrying him?
Do what your heart tells ya... the quest here is, do you want him... thousands of men may love you a lot, but you cannot want all of them rite?
if you want something, fight for it... or else be a loser.
2007-01-09 23:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by zucco_69m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jst think in ur parents point of view also ... y they dont like him...
2007-01-09 21:52:18 · answer #10 · answered by chinni s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋