2007-01-09 21:23:58 · 11 answers · asked by mani_7772000 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
that"s life
2007-01-12 06:44:51 · answer #1 · answered by rockstar_superstar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOVE CAN NEVER BE PURCHASED IN THE MARKET PLACE! And it is not a commodity either. Only, the material things can be purchased by throwing out more money and even applying one’s physical/ political forces. The primitive men considered women and wealth only as his possessions, like ornaments and articles for his own pleasure. He wanted to possess the diamonds and gold, like that he wanted to possess few/ more beautiful women in his custody to show off that he is greater than the rest of all the fellow men!
And we are not that much primitive!
And why do you chase at the back of her and wanted to possess her when she is not in a position to love you? Dont you know that Love is a mutual understanding and a silent bondage of two hearts? It is really a two-way affair in all its equal proportions. You cannot ask a real lover that why he/ she has chosen the other beloved and in what such parameter. Love has no measuring instrument to weigh its validity. Love comes spontaneously with no pre-intimation and with no pre-evaluation!
One can want to possess a woman for her enchanting external physical beauty, and
WANTING TO POSSESS CAN NEVER BE HIS ABUNDANT LOVE TOWARDS HER!
Do you know one thing, even the life-less diamonds, mere stones, seek refuge under a strong man who can keep it in safe custody and security.
Then, what to say about a life-full of woman with all her legitimate expectations/desires/affections/and love.
AT LAST A WORD,
LOVE IS AN EQUAL ATTRACTION.
AND YOU CANNOT FORCE OR BEG THE OTHER ONE TO LOVE YOUR SELF, AND IT WOULD NOT BE A LOVE AT ALL EITHER!
Be wait patiently,
God will show you an another girl for your sake and your heart shall get attuned with hers, she might love you for some thing precious hidden in you, which heaven sake God and she only knows!
My blessings!
2007-01-10 06:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by yozenbalki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
May be she doesn't want to enter into a relationship or she does not want love u. U cant force a person to love u. B friendly to her and make her feel wht u feel for her. But dont always keep telling th. u love her. If she reciprocates +vely then she may love u but if u pester her always, she wl start hating u. better maintain a friendly relation. But if u hv tried all these and it hs not worked, u try to move ahead in ur life. A person who loves u can only keep u happy in ur life. So marry a person who loves u and not the person whom u love.
2007-01-09 21:54:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were right for her when you was deeply and truly loving her.
But your madly loving or madness force her to refuse you...
2007-01-11 02:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by Prasun Saurav 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Y dont u give her time..just go away from her life thn she will start missing you..probably u r not giving her time to think and understand your importance to her...there is a saying 'if u badly want something it goes away from you'.
Buddy just chill nd let her come to you..
2007-01-09 21:50:37 · answer #5 · answered by miss 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you can't force her to love her. Don't worry, someone will give you back the love you feel one day. Today just isn't that day.
2007-01-09 21:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you tell her anything about your feelings? And if you did and she doesn't feel the same,why can't you let her go? Think of any reason that comes up,without any censorship!
2007-01-10 04:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by valentin79ro 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just doesn't feel that you're the one she wants to spend the rest of her life with; maybe she doesn't want a relationship at all at this time; maybe she's lesbian....
YOU KNOW HER BETTER THAT I DO, SURELY!
2007-01-09 21:33:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when she refuses it is really ur madness, i think loving her.
there are n number of girls, why stick on to that particular one.
just leave her to herself.
2007-01-09 22:21:14 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell you what..move on, if she does not like you, den move on n wish her luck..
2007-01-09 21:36:23 · answer #10 · answered by Imaginarist... 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋