2007-01-09 21:16:15 · 15 answers · asked by starflower 5 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
if a girl tells them that their guy is bad - she needs to make it clear to him on what she wants rather than using the "psychic" method and let him guess. if a guy feels they are bad because they know they are bad, they need to experiement and see how to become a better lover. this includes being about to know and understand the female anatomy, what foreplay is and how to do it, learn to romance a female and to please their woman as many times as possible (orgasms) before he's done. okay, so that last one isn't always true. thing is, women need to be stimulated more than physically. romance her, wine and dine her, give her much foreplay and go slow during the act. experiementing on different positions and even with toys is something that could be done. if you want to be kinky, add in some cuffs, leather whips and a blindfold to spice up the mood. if you are comfortable with your sexuality, then you will be fine in bed and please your lover.
2007-01-09 21:34:01 · answer #1 · answered by Shakti Svātantrya Isa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just go on and penetrate before doing foreplay. I believe that there is no man who cannot satisfy his partner or a partner who will not get satisfied. Unless you want out or you are thinking of someone else during sex. Talking with your partner helps a lot and that will make him/her rectify any wrong done.
Some women don't want to talk when having sex or after and say taht their partner don't satisfy them. Take a good look at yourself before saying men don't satisfy women.
2007-01-09 21:37:02 · answer #2 · answered by MEMSA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends! Are you sure that your partner got full satisfaction from you?!
1> May be your expectations are too high!
2> May be Your partner cant last long!!
3> May be you were not so aroused as your man!!!
4>None of you try to understand other partner!!!!
2007-01-09 21:29:54 · answer #3 · answered by dipu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, in a few years when you are like 21 and start dating men that are over 23 you will see that they have learned a few tricks. Until then I would recommend communication, It is easier for a guy to please a girl when he knows what she wants.
The only common denominator in all your bad sexual encounters...is you.
2007-01-10 15:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by higg1966 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys say it straight out: "I'm in there to bust my nut, and that's it."
Some guys don't realize they're doing something wrong (or not doing something that they ought to).
Some guys do all we can, but the girl gets sore before we find the cliff and throw her off it (and in fairness, when she doesn't finish, I don't finish).
We're probably not talking about nearly all the men there are. I know I've received no complaints (and I've had many... repeat customers). Are you sure you've not just set yourself up to get into failing situations (and have failing situations get into you)?
2007-01-09 21:25:38 · answer #5 · answered by wood_vulture 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you didn't come with an "Owners Manual" different people like different things. Try communicating with your partner and let him know what you really like. I'm sure he will be more than willing to make you happy.
2007-01-10 04:55:09 · answer #6 · answered by crazyhorse19682003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All women like different things, maybe you should tell your partner exactly what you like, or if your to embarassed to come out and tell him, when he does something you like, give positive reinforcement (ie: oh yea baby, I like that). Us men might be dense from time to time, but given hints, we will remember.
2007-01-09 21:29:57 · answer #7 · answered by jeeper_peeper321 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is a long term relationship, partners have to communicate their needs and wishes.
Communication is a must in every relationship.
Good luck :)
2007-01-09 21:28:27 · answer #8 · answered by janko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man does not have any problems satisfying me. Maybe you just need a new man...or maybe you are doing it wrong.
2007-01-09 21:20:16 · answer #9 · answered by bashnick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
-not all men.
-I think some are more in to their own satisfaction.
-If the woman say what is good for them or what they want, it can be very helpful.
2007-01-09 21:23:08 · answer #10 · answered by secnarF06 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋