well I am now in crisis accomadation because of all the stress I am under at home with my parents and family in general and if that aint bad enough my now ex never wants to hear from me again in any way, shape or form because she believed her dumb friend when she said I wanted to cheat on her (Laura the ex) with Janelle (the friend of her)....this was NOT TRUE because I dont even have Janelle's phone number and would never have cheated on her..Laura was my life and the ONLY person that I loved and look because of her stupid friend that has all been taken away from me and well I just dont know what to do right now, remember the theme song to mash...suicide is painless, now I am wondering is that the easiest way for me to get out and leave all my ******* problems behind or is there a better way for me to go about doing things???
PLEASE DON'T REPORT ME PLEASE DONT
thanks
Mitch
2007-01-09 21:07:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
so much for me loving her with all my heart and giving my life for her....WHAT A ******* WASTE I hate myself right now I really do and just dont know what to do, how the **** can I send a message to a person when I dont even have their god dam mobile number I cant its simple, Janelle wrote some **** and put my number on it I am sure....grrrrr Laura you should have believed me but obviously you didn't so go and GET ******
2007-01-09 21:16:00 · update #1
I feel sorry for you. Sounds like things aren't going so smoothly for ya, but think about it, when is life ever perfect. Just be more positive and MAKE your life perfect. You can't do that if your dead.
You think that's bad? After my brother died I got put in a psych ward because I tried killing myself. That was three years ago. PLEASE PLEASE don't kill yourself. I know it sounds stupid now, but right now you aren't thinking rationally. It happens with depression. Go to a doctor and get help. Things will eventually get better. It's pretty remarkable that I was willing to end my life three years ago and now I love my life and I'm happy. I recently got my first job since my 16th birthday was January 2nd. I can't wait to start working. It's this really cool place that has local bands come and play. Music is my lover ;), so yeah, it's going to be way fun. My whole attitude is different toward life. Right now I'm just enjoying being single, but I get a ton of compliments almost every day on how good I look . I love painting, taking walks, hanging out with friends, music, and a lot of other things.
I now realize that the suicidal person was not me, it was my depression. PLEASE DO NOT KILL YOURSELF.
Oh, and try just taking a break from relationships. I also went to the train tracks about 6 months ago to contemplate suicide because of a relationship. I won't go into the details, since it's a long story. Well when the train finally came I was on the wrong train tracks and I couldn't bring myself to wait again. It's not worth it. You have your whole life ahead of you.
Another thing, don't drink if you have had suicidal thoughts recently. The first time I got completely trashed I became very suicidal. Of coarse I was to trashed to do anything about it but still alchohol is a downer, just say no. I haven't drank since.
If you don't want to talk to your doctor just talk to family and friends. Some obviouse things that will make you happy is get as much sunshine as possible, exercize, and eat regularily. Things aren't as bad as they seem, cheer up.
~*~Tessa~*~ your an ass. I'm sure you don't mean to be, but you aren't helping.
2007-01-09 21:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get through this. You will get through this. It will just take time, it won't happen in five minutes. It would be nice wouldn't it? Okay - you really have no intentions on committing suicide, because you just stopped yourself.
Now here is what you need to do; you have to pull back, get away from those things that are the cause of your stress. You know remove yourself so that you can sort things out.
I'm not sure how old you are so I won't tell you to pack your things and move out lock stock and barrel. Just get away for a few hours to do what you need to do.
If you have not grieved by all means greive, grieving is part of the healing and getting over it process. If you have not got angry enough get good and angry; that as well is part of the getting over it process. You know it's like building the engine on a car, you skip a step the car may not run or it may run and all of a sudden the engine falls to the street and there you sit.
2007-01-09 22:20:07 · answer #2 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry you are having such a bad time right now, but things will get better!
suicide is NOT the answer!!!
First of all, stop being so hard on yurself. You need to give your ex a little space and time right now, then try to talk to her, but not right away. You need to take care of yourself a little bit to start with. Make sure you are eating, sleeping and drinking plenty of water so you wont get physically sick on top of everything else!
You need to relax a little bit by getting away from the people who are stressing you out, even if it means just closing the door to your room. Listen to some relaxing music, take a nice long, hot shower or soak in a hot tub. Eat a little comfort food, watch a comedy or something that you like. Go for a walk alone so you have some breathing room and time to think about what YOU like and what makes YOU happy ( besides the ex-girlfriend)
2007-01-09 21:14:26 · answer #3 · answered by bambi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cash in your chips then it's game over. You will have let that b i t c h win. She will have had the finale victory. By you staying around will be a thorn right in her crawl hole. Janelle wanted you but you didn't give in to her. You know the old saying "hell have no fury like a woman scorned". So she is trying to get even by twisting Laura's head around with her lies and deceit. So don't let her! Her whole life has been nothing but lies. These treacherous acts don't stay hidden indefinitely. So the best thing for you to go about doing things is to keep on keeping on. That means you spite that shrew and stay alive! This is far from over. Just don't cave in. The finale score is yet to be settled so make sure you're around to see it happen. In the meantime get your head together and clear out those negative thoughts you've been having. You may be down in the game now, but don't put yourself out.
2007-01-09 21:57:55 · answer #4 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you wont commit suicide!
But if it was that easy for her to make such a decision and not give you the chance to explain! then sorry to say this, you need to move on!
sometimes in life all the worst just collapse over your head at once! life doesn't give a break, but then we know that every storm will end! it will leave a mess, but with time you can clear it up!
never let bad thoughts take you over, if you kill your self you can miss out of all the improvements that your life could go through!
On your own you can make decisions that determines where your life will go (to better or even to worse) make wise decisions!
nobody said that life is fair!
Good luck
2007-01-09 21:15:28 · answer #5 · answered by mwa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mitch, don't give up, ok? You would not have asked this question if you were going to give up, so keep that out of your mind. Keep your mind, instead on positive things. Like MASH. Ok?
You don't need the drama that it seems your family and exes have given you right now, so take a big step backward from them and if you can, disconnect right now. You need a good close friend to talk to about all of this. This Yahoo answers thing is fun, but I'm really glad you chose it right now.
No one is going to report you for how you feel. I wish so much we could talk more, but if you have anymore difficulties, ask more questions here on Yahoo, (since we don't have email addresses to share right now.....)
I'm going to make mine public just for you so that if you need someone to chat with, its ok with me.
Good luck, Mitch, I hope I hear from you again.
2007-01-09 21:17:08 · answer #6 · answered by kaliroadrager 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude eat ice-cream!!! Cheer up life means so much more than a couple of dames. Relax!!! U have heard it all before .. every cloud has a silver lining.. blah blah..
Just chill out and dont sweat the small stuff and believe me when u hit my age (which is 30 BTW) stuff which at 20 seemed liked the end of the world is now just piss in the wind (gone and forgotten)
2007-01-09 21:14:38 · answer #7 · answered by Melvin C 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
this time of year is probebly the peak time for depression and suicide attempts.
sounds like youve had a hard time, but do you really want to go out on a low like this?
let me tell you that these things get easier as you get older, and now i look back on my younger years and wonder why i felt so strongly about everything, and why did i micro-analyse every decision i made to see why i went wrong?
now i know that sometimes sh!t happens, and thats part of life.
so hang around, and wait for the spring. you'll soon see that some things are meant to be and some aren't.
2007-01-09 21:14:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it will be hard..but the only thing you can do right now is just let go...she believed her friend over you..that means there was not much trust in the relationship..and that is not good. trust is the main key in a relationship..without it you have nothing.
Dont get to down on this..there are much worse things that could of happened..just let her go..find someone worth your time and that loves you in return.
2007-01-09 21:23:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Mitch, life goes on. Even if things look bad right now, just take one day at a time and you'll be fine. My situation right now sux as well, and I'd rather just go to a bar and drown my sorrows, but... I won't do that. (Not this time anyways lol). Like a said, take it easy and surround yourself with good friends that will cheer you up.
2007-01-09 21:16:58 · answer #10 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋