We hardly ever kiss mouth to mouth, he doesn't like it he usually says I don't feel like it. It's usually a small kiss on the lips like 3 times a week.. what's wrong?? and bad breath is not the issue, he says I have nice breath.
For me kissing him on the lips is like getting a small bit of choclate then you want to taste more so you go further into the tongue and everything inside and keep kissing, its the key to sex and intimicy dont you think?? Everything else is good its just this kiss.... Help what's wrong ... are there people like that and what to do with him ? I'm serious so plz serious answers only.
Thank you
2007-01-09 21:01:30 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It has always been like this
2007-01-09 21:10:22 · update #1
This is a super loaded question. There could be so many reasons. It also would depend on whether he just started acting like this or if he in fact has not enjoyed kissing you from the start.
If this is new behaviour...here are a few things that could be wrong:
1. Your husband could be depressed or stressed out about other issues and is not as lovey as he used to be.
2. He is having mixed feelings about your relationship and can't bring himself to kiss you right now. (sometimes in cases of cheaters)
If this behavior has been going on since your relationship began here are a few thoughts:
1. He is feeling inadequate about kissing and you will have to encourage him.
2. Your kissing style and his conflicts. It's not that either party is a bad kisser per say...just not so compatible as the other.
3. He is literally not a kissy person.
I hope some of this helps you to understand or at least cope with your marital issues.
2007-01-09 21:12:07 · answer #1 · answered by crystalsgrooming 2 · 6⤊ 2⤋
There's a guy who called it a "silly custom" and claimed that men "detest" it?
Oh really? If men aren't willing to show the most basic type of affection, then they are
not good partners. Guys talks about how important sex supposedly is, but you won't recognize
that affection is very important? It keeps people together. Men who "detest" affection
don't deserve anything else.
2015-11-05 03:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by mg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everything else is going good then it is a personal problem that he has to deal with. He may not be affectionate in that way. You should tell him how you feel about the kissing issue and hopefully he'll try. How long have you been dating/married? Has he always been this way? If he hasn't then I'd be suspicious that he may be cheating but usually the sex is affected as well. Good luck
2007-01-09 21:15:06 · answer #3 · answered by glove 2 · 6⤊ 2⤋
This is really a tough trouble.
Since you have pointed out that your relationship with your hubby is good and bad breath isnt the issue.... so you should open up to him and ask him directly.. just tell him how you feel about kissing and how important it is for you.
I can hardly think of any reason behind that.
2007-01-09 21:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by panther_007_2k 2 · 6⤊ 2⤋
See all male are different form other man but they do one thing which is same for all man. But as far as kissing issue on lips its seems your husband don’t know or he did not seen any movie, may be he seen only those movies which they shows how to do sex, but they don’t show how to start sex, and you know the starting point is kissing on lips a deeper kissing more affect on sex. So my suggestion I give you,
show him a nice movies where they start from kissing on lips or tell him that how much is this sexy, or tell him that do this for one week and than if you don’t like than leave this.
So may be after one week he will learn how much sexy is this.
2007-01-09 21:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by ecology 1 · 6⤊ 2⤋
I can sympathize with you, my fiance and i have only been together for 2 years and he doesn't kiss anymore (his excuse is that he doesn't feel like it) i smoked when i met him and he kissed me all the time, and now i still smoke and he tries to use it as an excuse!! The only way to find out what is going on is to let him know how you feel and ask him!!! if he says he doesn't feel like it ask him why until you get an answer that actually makes sense!!
2007-01-09 21:08:02 · answer #6 · answered by Roxxy 2 · 6⤊ 2⤋
Was he a kisser before you got married? Has he only changed recently or a long time ago? He may simply just not like kissing - I love kissing and yes it is very intimate. It is hard to say as your question doesn't say if you have intimacy problems or any other problems.
2007-01-09 21:08:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 2⤋
Kissing on the lips is a silly custom. Women like it because the think only a man in love will kiss on the lips. Men detest it, but do it because the woman wants.
2007-01-09 21:07:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 4⤋
Some men just aren't into kissing, which is really a shame because it all starts with a kiss....Men become comfortable once they are married and some of them just forget that kissing is the real connection between two people.
2007-01-09 21:09:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 2⤋
Bcoz he likes kiss from girl...joking.. Yes you're right. Kiss is just a simple act that can improve relationship of each other and It's the sweetest thing in the world. Do you still remember the taste of last kiss...
2007-01-09 21:57:34 · answer #10 · answered by Edvert 1 · 5⤊ 3⤋