What do men prefer?

Question

Between a fat younger woman and a fit older one

Answer 1

what do women prefer, a young man with a little one, or an older man with a big one?

Answer 2

A Curvy younger woman or fit older?

Tough one, I like both of those types of woman, but I'd probably go for the curvy younger woman, as id do like this a little more than the fit women. I'm not exactly Mr Universe myself!

Of course this is the initial meeting, as I don't go for girls on looks alone! She'd have to have a great personality too!

Answer 3

Everyman has his preferences.
There is someone for everyone, provided they don't hold unreasonable criteria.

There is a general guide that works for most men though.
1. the older a man gets the more he finds older women attractive. He never stops dreaming about the young ones. But it's the sex and not the relationship he is after.
Going out with people his own age or older are usually more about commitment.
2. Most men see the silhouette first, then the face, then the eyes. Most men begin to take their feelings seriously after eye contact and not before. Up till then it's just daydreams. Many relationships blossom from a bad silhouette if they get on face to face.

This is a general rule and does not apply to those men or places that deliberately attract suggestive behaviour. A man doesn't go to a bar to find a wife. If he does marry her, it is in spite of the fact that he picked her up in a bar.

And finally to answer your question, I personally prefer someone within 10 years of my own age, whose weight would be considered healthy. What sells me are bright eyes and smile. Anything else I get is a bonus, and I grow to love what she is first thing in the morning, no make-up, bed-head and drool.
But I will fantasise about Halle Berry if I live to be a hundred. If I ever met her I would be polite and go home to my wife.

ps. Most men are like me. Sex and love are different things for us, until we are in love. You cannot judge us by female standards, we do not judge you by ours.
We don't just think in terms of old/young, fat/thin.
More like place, behaviour, silhouette, smile, eyes and finally most men have their own 'thing' which gets them going.
And remember, we have a constant sex drive, but that doesn't mean we all idiots. If you go to meet men in places where they go looking for women, you may meet nice men, but they will not be looking for nice women, and will behave appropriately. I've been a complete ***** on many one night stands in my youth, but only accidently where I didn't realise we both didn't understand the ground rules. Now I know more about women, I don't make those mistakes anymore.

Answer 4

expierence is always a good thing hence older women, they feel they can learn more and then carry it on to the next relationship - men always prefer a girl confident in bed with tricks, then a young woman been fidgety and unsure of herself in that department

fidgety means - akward, cant sit still

Answer 5

A fit older woman of course!

But fat can be sexy too as long as she isn't morbidly obese.

Answer 6

fit older

Answer 7

Depends on wich one i liked the most, as in who the nicest person out of the two is, looks and age are not that important. you could have a real hoty as a gf and she could be a real b**ch or you could have a avrage gf an she could be perfect!

Answer 8

Something in between, i.e. a fit younger one...

Answer 9

They both have their good points!!! Honestly. Id rather say cuddly than fat though ;)

Answer 10

you have to define the terms better.

But as all men REALLY care about is the tightness , resilience and elasticity of "you-know - what", I'd have to say fat +younger, personally.