My wife(whom I love very much)has never gotten along with my mom and one night while my dad was at work my wife and I went over to moms house to visit. Well, my wife and I got into an argument about one of her co-workers (as I thought they were having sex together) and I got really upset so I left the house and went for a walk but when I came back I heard loud screams coming from inside the house so I ran in the house and saw my wife beating up my mother on the floor of the kitchen. My mother was crying and bloodied so I dragged my wife off her and calmed her down and went to my moms aid and talked with her while I cleaned her up. They haven't talked since and I have not been over to moms house since that night.
2007-01-09 20:53:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
such bickerings often happen in many households, except that its more often without the existence of bloodshed. anyway, don't worry so much, because you're not alone. some people's personalities simply clash with another. besides, different upbringing and culture they dwell in also make a difference. (it could be about the way they cook, the methods they use to wash their clothes-- everything, and in those matters they will tend to think that their method is better than the other, resulting in arguments.) but in your case, your wife shouldn't have beaten your mum up at any circumstance. i would suggest you try to keep them both apart till the whole thing blows over. meanwhile, find them with each of them alone and ask them about what happened that night; reassure them that whatever they say would be kept confidential with you. then you can be the judge. all the best :)
of course, if things don't improve, i would suggest counselling.
2007-01-09 21:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by Melody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First try to find out what had happend and try to solve the problem. But if you feel you cannot patch them up, then leave their own way. But you should keep a smooth relationship with both of them because both the ladies are precious to you.
2007-01-10 06:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by Jayanthi S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First maybe call your Mom to see if she is ok.Then maybe have a time when you can talk to her by yourself.(always two sides to a story)Try to find out how your mom feels about your wife,and things they fight about.But also talk alone with your wife.You need to find out what caused the violant fight.Some counseling could help too.Wishing you the best!Good Luck!!
2007-01-10 05:10:05 · answer #3 · answered by stressed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May I suggest some serious counseling for all of you.
It sounds like your mother does not want let her son go and your wife feels like she has to fight her to keep you.
It almost sounds like a bad Jerry Springer show.
good luck
2007-01-10 04:59:52 · answer #4 · answered by Gabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋