I am 15 years old.
I think when I was 13, I accidently went onto a porn site, with lesbians and huge breasts, the works, basically. I was grossed out at first, but gradually I think I started getting turned on by it. I then regularly used Google Search for the pictures and enjoyed it.
However, before I saw all this, I had the usual crushes and boyfriends, and I find men attractive. I still find men sexy. What confuses me is that I find women's breasts attractive as well, and I touch my own often.
I started masturbating a year ago and what gave me the most pleasure was when I was thinking about naked women and lesbians going at it like I saw on the Internet...
Is this normal? I am very confused at the moment about why I find it so pleasing... maybe I am bi? I have no idea, and I appreciate advice.
Thanks for taking the time to read this and helping me.
2007-01-09 20:43:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes you are bi-curious. That simply means you are curious about sexual relations with the same sex.
I really think that everyone is to some extent or another is bi. I am convinced this is the case with most girls--and probaby with men--but they are usually unable or unwilling to accept or acknowledge it.
I think you will just have to see how things go as you get older and have experiences. At this time it does not seen you are lesbian oriented. To be that you must like girls AND be repulsed or non-plussed with male sex. It is possible that with experience that may be the case with you--but it is not now.
It is possible that you will remain very attracted to woman and attracted to guys as well--making you totally bi. Perhaps, in the end you will find you like sex with guys better than with woman--and you will go the straight route.
The most important thing is to not deny your feelings and keep going with them and see where you are most comfortable.
2007-01-09 21:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by beckychr007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way for u to find out if you are truley bi is to have sex with a women. Now, I feel that you are to young to have sex with anyone, male or female, maybe im old school.
Womens breasts are attractive no matter if your gay or striaght, just thinking about having sex or watching lesbians have sex isnt making u bi. I think its totally normal for u to be trying to find what you like at this age, dont feel guilty about it. Like I said, if your having sex, which im sure you are, have sex with a girl sometime, that will clear up your mind.
2007-01-09 20:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by arielsalom33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably bisexual, but take time to see if you can be emotionally attracted to girls, and whether or not real girls can turn you on or just the "porn" types of girls. If real girls can than you are definitely bi, but don't worry, if you are, you'll have a huge community here that will support you every step of the way while you discover yourself. :)
2007-01-09 21:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by guitarherofairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are "bi", then again maybe not.
You have breasts. You should most certainly like them then. Relax. Human Bodies are the most beautiful things in the universe.
2007-01-10 00:32:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u aint bi u just curious if u still find men sexy go on my page n holla at me cuz i think u'll find me sexy
2007-01-10 04:42:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still attracted by men/boys.,and you masturbate fantasizing about women,chances are that you are Bisexual,
So what?
There are millions of them.
You are not alone in this.
greetings:Rob.xxxx
2007-01-09 21:59:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your confusion is arising because we place such importance on labels...nobody is gay or straight or black or white...there are nuances everywhere...you sound straight to me with maybe a little bi curiosity..
2007-01-09 20:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal, don't worry. Most people have bisexual feelings when young
2007-01-10 02:20:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are bi-sexual. There is nothing wrong with it.
2007-01-09 20:54:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are very normal. Do not judge yourself just go with it and enjoy!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-09 22:56:13 · answer #10 · answered by kim j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋