We clicked. We went back to a friends place and next thing I know she's all over me and then gives me a BJ without a condom. Should I be worried that she does this often?
2007-01-09 20:24:02 · 29 answers · asked by Vance 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Absolutely be worried. She reminds me of an ex-friend. If she's doing it with you then she's done with tons of other guys. She obviously has no self respect. Not a healthy relationship, and go to the Doc. to get checked out.
2007-01-09 20:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by CaelinsMama 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, the kind of woman who does that is probably one who is horny, likes sex and is comfortable with her sexuality. Either that or she's just messed up in the head and fits all the awful cliches about women who 'give it away'. You are responsible for your own safety, so don't blame this woman. You were not wearing the condom. Should you be worried? Yea, get some tests done and don't be sexually active for awhile. It's not likely that you'll get anything too serious this way although oral herpes can spread to the genitals, but it's more likely you've picked up something that can be easily treated with a course of antibiotics like syphillus or clamydia.
2007-01-10 05:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it that men are applauded for having sex on the 1st date but women are condemned? What concerns me is not that she had sex on the 1st date but that she had no concern for protection. If you plan on seeing this girl again then you might consider mentioning your feelings to her. The problem with men is that they are over the moon for a woman who is open to sex on the 1st date. Maybe if 1 man said to her" Listen, your a really nice girl and I like you very much and i'd hate to see you behave this way with the wrong man so as your friend i am telling you that you should protect yourself". She will probably be quite impressed that you are not a shallow person but rather a person of substance. She will respect you for your candor and heartfelt words. Good luck!
2007-01-10 06:44:14 · answer #3 · answered by denise b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess u should be. She seems to be a professional wen it comes 2 give a bj without a condom
2007-01-10 04:46:25 · answer #4 · answered by tiya_ahuja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men kill me with this kind of crap!
Why did you let her? I mean if she has something, you have it now. Some women are very sexual like that. I am one of them. I'm not going to say I would have took it to that extreme, but obviously she was real turned on by you. Take it as a compliment. I dont know too many men who would be insulted at receiving some attention like that. Everybody has done something sexually that they may not be proud of at some time in their life.
2007-01-10 06:57:10 · answer #5 · answered by Wisdom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont ever be worried that she does that often. She may have a very strong sex drive . Or she may be really into you. But obviously she is not unfamiliar with it or shy. Probably had a couple of positive remarks about how well she does it . I dont know ! Ask your buddies , they could probably tell you?
2007-01-10 04:32:07 · answer #6 · answered by grainy33 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Without a shadow of a doubt you should be worried. Think of who might be next or who was there before you. Protect yourself. Personally, I think men like women who play hard to get and not the ones who give it out like candy.
2007-01-10 04:29:07 · answer #7 · answered by Jerry S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes she does it all the time. Clinton made oral sex popular with the girls.
If she did it with you she will do with all the guys she meets. I know some women who have a better orgasm giving head than having intercourse.
Got her number?
2007-01-10 04:59:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
donot try to come into coclusion even b4 u get to know the person.... coz no women can act n respond same way as to all the men they come across.. she might be a flirt but she cannot flirt with everyone ....if u really like her.. donot judge her ..
and also have some confidence in yourself .. why it is hard for u to believe that she likes u a lot n so did it....m sure it is your magnatism n personality that brings her to act ... and she just cannot resist you....
2007-01-10 04:50:14 · answer #9 · answered by hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you worried about this when you were being serviced? You're another one of those bums who uses women and then calls them whores. Next time, tell the woman "absolutely not" when she starts going down on you. Then you can complain, jerk.
2007-01-10 04:50:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋