why do parents do this to their child?

Question

ive just dropped my son at school and noticed a little girl,about 6 wearing her skirt so tiny it barely covered her,she also had knee high heeled boots on,blonde bits in her brown hair and lipstick on.i was utterly amazed.....i personally dont think schools should allow their pupils in like this,what do you think? and dont forget this child is 6 years old.

Answer 1

There are some mothers who constitutionally incapable of being honest with themselves, they are not at fault, they are born that way.
However ,there are those to who have been abused and think the best way for a woman to look is to be highly decorative,just like our queen on coronation day.
The child is not aware yet what the mother is doind to her,or what the mothers ajanda is dressing the child up like a tart.
the mother is not aware of her sexuality,and is dressing up her child in a way she believes is best.
The mother has her own image,and sense of self, and is projecting this onto the child.
deeper still the mothers own sense of self ties up with sexuality nurturing and love which needs to entangled but the mother needs to be willing to work on herself.
many young women become mothers, and abuse their children in so many ways that a lot of them grow up and can be easily catagorised,as a result of abuse,and they lose the gift of being individuals.
Fear is the main emotion that overides childrens ability to stand up and be counted as individuals,and of course the women who dress their children as th=ough they are going to a party for paedophiles shopuld be given therapy to prevent them from exposing their young innocent daughters from the dangers of being pushed into the sinister world of exploiting the male arousel system,

Answer 2

Unfortunately, many parents project their own desires onto their children. Maybe the parents of this girl never got the attention they wanted as a child and are now compensating by making (/letting) their daughter get as much attention as possible at any cost (without thinking about the negative consequences), even if this attention is purely based on sexual attraction by perverted pedophiles or 'early-starter' peers.

Otherwise they are just plain slack or taking a misguided 'laissez faire' approach to raising their child.

Schools cannot really do too much about it, due to pressure from certain groups advocating the 'freedom' of their children without really thinking about the issues at hand. Besides, where would they draw the line? Lip gloss? Streaked hair? Boob tubes? Imagine the uproar if they started sending girls home for dressing inappropriately. It just wouldn't work in this day and age. Sad stuff...

Answer 3

I entirely agree. My partner's daughter when she is with her mum, wears knee high boots, tiny short tight skirts, and lipstick and nail varnish and she has just turned 4! When she comes over for weekends we normally wash all the tints out of her hair if there are any, take the varnish off and she wears jeans and t-shirts that she loves more because she can run around and get messy in them!
He's tried talking to her mum but she thinks it looks nice. (???)

I also saw a girl the other day a bit older (about 12) walking to school with a mini skirt, stilettos and a half unbuttoned shirt. She looked pleased with herself when people were looking at her but actually it wasn't out of admiration it was that it looked tarty!

Answer 4

it is disgusting and furthermore, why do the manufacturers make the sexy things so tiny that they will fit a 6 yr old??

it makes my stomach turn when i see sexy underwear in the shops with a 4-5 and 6-7 label on them.

we wonder why paedophilia is so bad in the world yet the people get away with promoting these mini items turn our innocent young generations into what could be seem as sex symbols.

it's unbelievable that parents can condone it. they mustn't be able to see how they are advertising there own child.

Answer 5

I am genuinely horrified at this, but sadly not at all surprised. If there was something (anything) I could do to stop parents doing this to their kids I would. We live in a dangerous and wicked world (sometimes) and babies (because that is what they are at 6) walking around like mini call-girls is just encouraging the sicko's..... it's got to stop and a good start would be petitioning the well-know stores that sell clothes and accessories to very young girls that are blatantly sexual, why????? Give children back their childhood!!

Answer 6

the sexualization of little girls in our society is really sick...it's not the least bit cute. my best friend started allowing her 7 yr old to dress this way, and the little boys at school actually starting calling her a "****." my friend didn't get it. i had to talk with her for hours before she understood the ramifications these behaviors can cause in the future. some parents just don't get it...some expose their kids to adult situations way too early on. many parents are too young to have kids, and are scared their kids will get mad at them, some didn't have healthy parents themselves. not as many ppl have common sense any more...look at the "role models" kids are exposed to: brittany, paris, etc. it's yucky. school has become a fashion show. they need the money from attendance so badly, that they will allow kids to come dressed in anything rather than risk losing attendance or making parents angry. it's sad.

Answer 7

i dress my little girl in a skirt knee boots and tights cause she looks cute and she like to look nice but i would not but high lites in her hair or let her wear lipstick that is just mad and school should not allow this at my little girls school they have to be knee lenght or longer try say something to the school about it

Answer 8

It's disgusting. I have said for a long time now that children aren't children for long these days. I was still playing with dolls when I was 12 and nowadays they have babies of their own at 12! Total madness and I would reiterate what other people have said in that it will send out wrong signals to paedophiles. They don't need any encouragement and God forbid anything did happen to that child you can guarantee her attire would be mentioned. Why can't little girls be little girls still??

Answer 9

i know how you feel, i have seen childern dressing like that and i think its appauling!

whats message is it sending to the pedophiles out there?!

i think your right the schools should not let the pupils dress like that, but dont forget its not the girl whos buying her the clothes its the parent/s. all schools should have guidelines on what pupils should wear, maybe not strict ones but things like, if a skirt is worn it must be of a certain lenght, ect

Answer 10

I let my daughter play dress up and act like that at home, and sometimes out in public if we just run to the store or something. However, there is a HUGE line between playing make believe and allowing a child to go out into LIFE like that. The parents are asking for trouble and it is going to be ashame if someone does something inappropriate to her because of the way she looks. How sad. Children need to be taught what is appropriate...although it sounds like the parents could use a big dose of that, too!