well its just that i n my bf cannot 4 some reason talk in skool so i wanted 2 call him as i want 2 talk 2 him just casualy.......well he doesnt call me but thats not d problem...........i had called him on saturday....tell please do i call him? will he like it?
2007-01-09 19:22:47 · 21 answers · asked by cuteromeshelly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no! it's like 4a.m. in the morning...stop stressin this dude
2007-01-09 19:28:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! Don't call him!! I have 3 daughters and a son. All in dating age. I teach them, the way my Father taught us. Respect yourself dear, and like the one nice guy said, definitely don't call when in a desperate mood! Do you like being treated this way? Aren't you worth calling? Spending time with? Aren't you nice? OF COURSE YOU ARE DEAR!!! There are so many people out there who would be more than happy to do nothing to deserve to be your boyfriend. But, the RIGHT one will be the one who treats you with respect, and SHOWS you love, NOT tells you about his LOVE. Actions speak so very much louder than words. PLEASE!! Get a grip, no one is worth belittling yourself over!!! Also, remember, if you do call, and never expect and require your boyfriend to put effort into your relationship, HE NEVER WILL!! Love yourself WAY more than any PERSON you ever let into your life. The GREAT ones are worth waiting for! Focus definitely on your studies! Remember also, while your are stressing all this your other interests in life are probably starting to fail as well. Right? If someone cares about you, they want you to do well etc. and will want you to be secure with yourself. If you expect nothing from your boyfriends, you will never get anything from them. You sound like you are probably a really caring nice person. You don't deserve to LET yourself be treated this way. Remember, no one can do anything to you, that you don't LET them do, right? Good luck, and I will be praying you start caring more about yourself, you deserve goodness.
2007-01-10 04:13:20 · answer #2 · answered by cathyjohnjayjantracipaige 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
You can call him,no biggie! Especially that you have called in the past.Just be casual and keep the conversation going,comfortable and not to intense.I'm not sure of this whole scenario,but talking never hurts anything.Comminacation is key!
2007-01-10 03:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by kathy v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never call someone if you're in a desperate mood. Always wait until you are relaxed or proccupied with something else. If not you'll sound too desperate on the phone.
2007-01-10 03:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by Darktania 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say he is keeping you a secret because he wont speak to you in public dump him now girl he is a user,he probably has a real girlfriend and doesn't want her to see him talking to you so wise up and protect your heart Good luck concentrate on your education
2007-01-10 03:46:29 · answer #5 · answered by deb m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not? go ahead and call. if u are not sure then why not ask him first if he is free or not. if he doesnt mind talkingor isnt busy with something else he will talk to u otherwise he'd just say that he cant talk now.
2007-01-10 03:30:16 · answer #6 · answered by urfriendfrlife 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u need to think about why it is he puts you on the back burner and why it is you are alright with that. Reevaluate you self worth and dont give him more than he deserves especially if he obviously isn't trying. And yes focus on your studies. u will regret it if you dont.
2007-01-10 03:33:54 · answer #7 · answered by nya 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That was the most scrambled, incomplete question you could ever ask. You need to give clearer details and maybe someone can help you.
2007-01-10 03:30:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
its an common issue , lets take a 1st step then he would steps 100 feets
2007-01-10 05:09:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your decision but be more concentrated about your studies not bf because he doesnt care for you since your birth and she doesnt work for you
2007-01-10 03:31:16 · answer #10 · answered by bryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should, if you really wanna talk to him and hear his voice. if he doesn't like you calling him, he's a jerk and he doesn't deserve a girl like you. and why doesn't he call you? unlikely for a boyfriend.. and..just be alert. =)
2007-01-10 03:32:54 · answer #11 · answered by Jojo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋