Can I have unprotected sex with my GF, if so How?

Question

I guess you can say I am sort of a begginer in sex, no I am not a little kid, I'm a mature adult. I have only had sex with 2 people and it was just basic stuff, all with a condom. I want to have sex with my GF now, but I have always been curious to do it without a condom. Neither of us has an STD so we are safe, the only thing we are worried about is getting pregnant. We are thinking about putting her on birth control pills and then going from there the pulling out technique. But more than anything lets say we do it and I *** in her, what happens after? Does she have to clean? Leave it there? What are the proper steps? Is it ok for me to *** in her WITH a condom on? Is this safe? Does it matter whether she is on brith control or not if I *** inside of her with a condom? Can I? Whats the clean up like for either of these scenarios:? What do we do after? Help! Begginer here...detailed answers here please!

I think I am talking about the cumming part, lets say I *** in her, does she just leave it in and move on as if nothing happend or does she have to clean or what happens if I *** in her?


Lets say I *** in her with a condom on...what do I do after...anybody?

Answer 1

i don't ever recommend unprotected sex...but if you want to do so i say you both get tested for both stds and aids and u have to show ur results to each other and then after that u start having unprotected sex. but just be aware that your gf may not be faithful in which case u are making yourself prone to getting an std

Answer 2

If your gf is on some form of birth control pill you should not need to use the pull out technique to prevent pregnancy. The birth control pill releases hormones that keep you from ovulating, thicken the cervical mucus so that sperm cant get into the uterus, and thin the lining of the uterus so that even IF an egg got fertilized somehow (very unlikely on birth control) it wouldnt be able to implant and survive.

Now, if you are sure that neither of you have STDs and neither of you are sleeping around with other people, then definitley get her on birth control and you will be able to stop using condoms. However, make sure she uses the birth control correctly (doctor should explain it). also remember that birth control pills have a 99% efficiency if used correctly, so there is still a TINY TINY chance that she can get pregnant but its very very small.

Condoms also prevent pregnancy if used properly and if they dont break so you can come inside her with a condom on. However, if it breaks or if there is a tear in it she can get pregnant.

If you come inside her with no condom, it will be messy. When you pull out, some of the semen may drip out of her vagina ,especially when she stands up. It would be a good idea for her to do that if you dont want all the semen up there even if you are on birth control. She can clean it up with a towel or go to the bathroom or something. Your penis will probably be covered in some of the stuff so you can wipe it off too.

Answer 3

First of all, good for you, using a condom. I am glad to know you are practicing safe sex. If she is not on birth control, then don't finish inside her, even with a condom. They are only 97% effective, and they can break.

If you do have an incident where there is a possibility of pregnancy, then the only thing you can do is have her take Plan B, an over-the-counter med that aborts pregnancy. She has to begin taking it within 72 hours of sex. However, this is the same thing as an abortion, so in my eyes, it is just as wrong as the real thing.

So, I would suggest using a couple forms of birth control. She should start birth control, but it is not fully effective until after the second month, so just hold on while and after the second month, you can do what you want, but just make sure NOT to have sex while she is ovulating. Count the number of days between the first day of her period until the next start of her period. Most women are 28-32 days. Divide that number in 2, and to be on the safe side, don't have sex that day, 3 days before or 3 days after.

Answer 4

The beautiful thing about being married is that you get to figure these things out together, and it doesn't matter if you accidentally get pregnant. Write me off if you want to, but you'd be happier if you waited.

As for clean-up, every good thing is messy. Honey is wonderful on sopapillas, but creates a very sticky mess. Snow skiing? Fun, but you get wet when you are learning how to do it. Learning to blow bubbles with gum is sticky, but worth it.

My point? Sex is always messy as well, but with experience, you learn how to clean it up and still have fun. Towels underneath you help tremendously, but can take the "spontaneous" out of it. You could just sleep in the mess and take showers together in the morning.

But like I said, this is much better accomplished when you are married to the person you are having sex with.

Also, should you really be having sex if it's a terrible time to have a baby?

Answer 5

The whole idea of pulling out is absurd. This does not help.

There are things that your girlfriend could attempt to use that are more immediate than awhile. It is a good idea that she uses the pill. However, she can ask the doctor for a diaphram which is inserted into her uterus, and there is a spermicide that helps to prevent pregnancy. It does not help to prevent the transference of any STD'S.

Please use the condom until you have talked to your doctor, and got the diaphragm, and your girlfriend has started the pill.

However, pulling it out does not stop her from getting pregnant.

Answer 6

Your question does not require a detailed answer.

Birth control pills is a good option. But you must consult / seek medical advise before starting BC pills. They need time to get settled.

Pull out is not an advisable method.

If you both are free from STD (if sure) go for BC pills.

Answer 7

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