Most of us aren't expecting to marry a virgin, but lets get real no one wants to be married to a reformed ho either. So, how many past guys woud it take for you to say "no thank you, you're just too much of a tramp for me. What if she told she had done porn, or been in a three way with two guys at the same tim all that DP stuff you hear about on the internet. what would it take for you to tell a woman that you love "no way your past is deal breaker"?
2007-01-09 19:16:08 · 10 answers · asked by michael H 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
past? what past? The only thing that matters is that couple's present and future, and their love. (of course, hope she hasn't got a STD)
Edit- I just reaized why this question might fit in here, and I think you shouldn't worry any longer, if you like her and love her enough to make her your wife, give her and give yourself that chance to be happy.
You know, if you marry a tranny, you can always adopt children later!
2007-01-09 19:39:34 · answer #1 · answered by Paco R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's known for always cheating. Why be with her if thats what she may do to me?
If she is bisexual and has been with more girls than guys and enjoyed it more. Why marry her if I know I'll never fully satisfy her sexually because I could never give her the feminine sex that only girls can give her...that she will probably miss.
And specifially to answer your question further, if she has been with too many guys, like so many that she probably was in porn, I'd feel like I'd never be enough for her in bed. She would have to prove to me otherwise, not pretend that I'm just insecure and should go along with it only to find out I was right about her and I had valid reason, not ridiculous insecurities.
2007-01-09 19:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how much you love and trust her as she is now, rather than as she might have been. Going into porn is like going into a service industry, but to some guys it would be an affront to their masculinity. Therefore your tolerance levels are totally personal. For me if I had even got to the stage in a relationship where marriage was being discussed I would have got over issues like that. If they have only just come to light then you need to seriously ask why they haven't come to light sooner.
2007-01-09 19:43:11 · answer #3 · answered by waggy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she is HIV/STD free, she has the option to leave her past behind. She might want to mention the porn stuff in case she's recognised by a "fan" but that's about it.
Question is- can she really leave that lifestyle behind? That's why I recommend long engagements.
2007-01-09 19:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by Alan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how comfortable you are with her past. How about your past? Are you judging her with double standards?
For myself as long as a woman is loyal and loving, that is what is matters, not her past. Most of us do things when young that we wish we hadn't.
2007-01-09 19:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What it this doing in the GLBT section anyway?
Go to singles and dating
Can't you read?
Rob.xxx
2007-01-09 20:26:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't drop her for such a flimsy excuse...none of us can do anything to correct our pasts...you are supposed to love and respect somebody for who they are...not who they were.
2007-01-09 19:21:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh, gay guys don't marry women
2007-01-10 01:08:53 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends who the previous person was, and if she has aids or not
2007-01-09 19:20:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why is this in the lgbt section?
2007-01-09 19:21:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋