What if you could chose prior conception, would you have a boy or a girl, and why?
2007-01-09 19:11:03 · 26 answers · asked by MM 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Im all with the natures element and also belive that choosing isnt an option, but theres no harm in playing in a fantasy land from time to time, keeps you young!.
I'd love a ltille boy first. Me and my partner havn't had any children (nor from previous relationships) So I'd love not not only make him a father for the first time, but for him to have a son, 'a little mini me' I'm sure he'd say. He is so knowledgeable, and into nature, animals, mechanics, all sorts! I would find it lovely to see the child in toddler years, being taught what tree that leaf fell off, or how you find different types of animals in different countries and why or seeing them bith mucky from mucking about.
I would aslo love to have a little girl. Seeing her play - making in a kitchen set and stuff. In time as she grew older I'd teach her how to cook, clean, wash and iron. And see her bloom into a lovely young girl, ready to face the world, with the basic skills she'd need.
I cant wait to have a child, and we have spoken of at least trying for 2 maybe 3. But I'm sure that we'll decide that after our precious time with our first. We are currently TTC.
What would you have and why?
2007-01-09 23:10:38 · answer #1 · answered by Need_to_know 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boy
2007-01-09 19:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really irrelevant. The child must be healthy, smart and yours. This is sooo not important. There are several stuff that boys and girls are good/bad at. So, if you have a girl, the house will be clean, the mom will have someone to talk with and when she will get 16, she will cause a lot of problems. If you have a boy, the window will be repaired, the dad will be proud, the school will be a mess and, when he will grow up, the problems will also start. When you decide to have children, you must be ready for problems. Either you have a boy or a girl, you will be proud, because it is your baby. And I repeat, not relevant. Do you agree?
2007-01-09 19:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by Howler 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
A boy, because then my second can be a girl and she will have a big brother to watch over her and stuff. But a girl would be really fun to dress up, and i can play 'princess' with her.
Honestly, either way, i would be happy, as long as he or she is healthy.
I'd be grateful that i even had a child, considering that many women don't get to be pregnant, because of health issues.
2007-01-09 19:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by navdeepkaur 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have two boys, but because I lost one in between I really didnt mind when I was pregnant for my second son. But the truth be known, when he was born, for a split second I thought, "Oh another boy" Now I would not change my sones for any girl (they are 27 and 22!!)
2007-01-09 19:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by London Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have 2 girls & a boy & that's my baby bearing days over but if I had to choose I'd say a boy. My son is so laid back, so is his twin sister but she's only 1 so I'm sure that'll change. People tell me boys are more loving & cuddly but my daughter is actually more loving than my son but boys clothes are just so much cuter! That's my reason, cos the clothes are cute!!! :)
2007-01-09 19:35:06 · answer #6 · answered by C Greene 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think I would choose to have a boy, because they are a lot easier to potty train, and also because they can carry on the family name. But it doesnt really matter just so long as the baby is healthy. Why?
2007-01-09 19:21:56 · answer #7 · answered by M C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt choose.
I am lucky i have 2 boys and 2 girls!
I love to buy girlie things for the girls and gadgets for the boys!
I dont think it makes a diffence wether they are a girl or a boy as long as they are healthy.
Everyone is unique wether they are male or female and i dont think you can sterotype them
2007-01-09 19:20:56 · answer #8 · answered by Scarlet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in choosing the sex. But I would love a little boy! Must stress that I would never choose!!!! I would be happy for a healthy child.
2007-01-09 19:16:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A girl, b/c I love little girls they are so cute! I have a 4 yr old girl and the baby I'm pregs w/ is a boy.
2007-01-09 19:16:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋