I got marrigae in Nov 2005 In the beganing she was very nice looking lady, but after two month she didn,t behave good with my mother sister and brothers. she start querell with them and in the last we saparat from my parents and start living saparate
i belongs to a middle class family and they (my parents need finincial help from my end but my wife dont give them a single peny.
and if i help them she saying that i will send you and your family to jail for dowry harrasement case her parent also help her for this what can i do now ??????
2007-01-09 18:48:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you could be totally right dude.
some girls can be that nasty.
just take a huge loan which would keep your parents comfortable for the next 10 years (like 10L)
pay it in small installments such that ur wife doesn't know
keep your wife happy and tell her parents are nomore gonna be in the way :)
2007-01-11 08:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by c.dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immediately after marriage had you taken correct steps and shown your wife her place in your family, thing would not have come to this state. You are the man and everywhere you have shown weakness. You should have taken steps when quarrels start with your mother, sister and brothers. You should not have seperated from your parents. Now you are fully in your wife's clutches and she is manipulating and blackmailing you. A small action at that time could have avoided a big problem today. Even now it is late, but not too late. Be a Man, show your wife her place. Ask her parents not to interfere in you affairs. and do whatever you think is the right thing. May god give you the strength and courage to do the right thing. Let not your wife's threats and domination overwhelm you. Fight for Justice, Do Just
2007-01-10 04:55:25 · answer #2 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is amazing how you guys readily blame the wife. You are sleeping with her but it never crosses your mind that your mother, sister and brothers may be harassing her most probably for dowry. Have you taken the trouble to find out who is really wrong? She is one among the rest of you if you were a real man you would stand up for her. Why the F#ck do you guys get married if your people are still dependent on you for financial help? Seems like getting married is a good way to support your family. Go ahead file a complaint about your wife…things have changed, I assure you that you and your family will probably land behind bars…the truth always prevails.
2007-01-10 03:47:27 · answer #3 · answered by the Tramp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In India, there is a misconception that women are always innocent in a marriage dispute. There are some unscrupulous women, who are marrying rich guys just to extract money later. Law has been a big help to them and women have not failed to use it to their advantage. This law which allows an husband, his parents, sisters and all his extended realtives including babies to be jailed without interrogation, is a real weapon in the woman hand. There are many husbands suffering because of these kind of bitches.
But there are other cases where the husband is a real maniac and tortures his wife to death, for dowry and for other reasons.
2007-01-11 16:25:24 · answer #4 · answered by JhonW 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to any sanstha or file case against her if she can do it so can u but don't tell her before u do so becoz women supporter more than men supporter don't let that women destroy Ur n Ur family members life u have married her that doesn't mean she can rule on Ur life talk to an professional like counsellor or advocate and better divorce that not at all good wife
hope u will be out of this mess soon i will pray for brother
god bless you
2007-01-10 03:23:00 · answer #5 · answered by shabana o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First both of u need Family Counsiling before that ur family & her family (Parents/relatives) sit to gather and discuss the probs what probs u r facig & what probs she faces. Its better u can take her to some nice place and slowly ask what is here intention what type of life she needs.
2007-01-12 02:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by vijaya s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the police first and report the matter. They will investigate and then you can help your parents without any problem of dowry harassment as the police will already know your case.
2007-01-10 02:53:58 · answer #7 · answered by sunilbernard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop working and earning. Start troubling her by non-cooperation even in small issues. Her parents will come to her rescue, oneday will come you will get rid of such person.
2007-01-10 02:55:17 · answer #8 · answered by yash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only God can save you and us. Ladies avoid listening. Ladies loves speaking. Try to listen. Avoid speaking. Accept her orders. Give her every thing - your money, your body, your attention, your self-respect. Be slave, dog, begger. Man is slave. She is queen but husband is NOT king. Ladies are foolish. They never see husband's point of view.
2007-01-10 04:54:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You married her so you need to work it out. Maybe you should try counseling. She is your wife. She should be #1
2007-01-10 03:39:24 · answer #10 · answered by Vance 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋