To whom u love more ur mother u gave u birth or ur wife who gave u a sweet baby?
2007-01-09 18:47:20 · 26 answers · asked by bazil_alee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You shouldn't have to choose, a mother is just one and you can have many wives, but....if your mother raised you right, she raised you for a good wife, not for herself. The good wife should not make you choose because that is two different kinds of love.
Good Luck.
2007-01-09 18:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
They are not to be compared. The relationships are entirely different.Mother gives birth, brings up and teaches the basics of life to the kids. Her love is unconditional,she can't hate u for your bad things. But she expects her son to be a good human being and do well in all aspects. A loving mother can not be selfish to love only her son and not his wife.Any mother who wants her son to be happy would like him to love his wife as well. She has the right to correct you when you are wrong. At the same time she should give space to his son's private life. She should realise that her duty as a mother is limited when he has grownup and she should let him live his life.You should love her and should be grateful to her always. Where as a wife's love lies in the 'give and take' theory. She is comparatively new to your life and takes time to get accustomed.She needs your care,protection and love.She expects you to show it. If she feels that you love her immensely, and really care for her,she would begin to like everyone you love. No matter she gave you a baby or not, you should love her from your innermost heart, since she is going to be with you till end, giving you all support.
2007-01-10 03:23:02 · answer #2 · answered by Janaki D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you made a commitment to marry your wife, you made a commitment to love her above all others. That would include your mother.
It is also quoted in the bible (Genisis 2:24) "Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave (adhere/glue/ bond/ fuse himself) unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh."
Even if you are not of a biblical mind or had a traditional marriage ceremony, I don't see how you can have a healthy marriage based on love and respect if you put your mother above your wife. You are asking for trouble and more than likely a divorce later if your wife feels second to your mom or even your kids. Your woman will expect to be put first, and she will expect you to support her in this with your mother or anyone else. Good luck if you make Mom first.
2007-01-10 03:00:50 · answer #3 · answered by USCErin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both have their on special place in mans life u cant say whom u love more both r unique in their on way one gave you life n one shared Ur life n both love u think good for u do things what makes feel happy both care for Ur comfort n happiness no one can love one more than the another
way of loving can be different but both are very much imp in mans life
so dear u cant say u love Ur mom more than wife or wife more than mom well i guess so..
god bless you.
2007-01-10 03:15:57 · answer #4 · answered by shabana o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This really isn't a fair question. U more then likely love them
both and in diffrent ways. Age old saying, your mothers your
mother till you take a wife!
2007-01-10 03:22:19 · answer #5 · answered by Nanniekc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the love you have for your parents, best friends, brothers, wife's/husbands etc. its each unique in its on way because I don't believe you love your wife in the same way you love your mom I think we have a different type of love for all different type of people and it can not be the same.
2007-01-10 02:55:20 · answer #6 · answered by Tina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not who you love best because it is two different kinds of love...you love your mother as a mother and your wife as your wife....You are suppose to be with your wife and baby because they are suppose to come first in your life...When you marry you leave your mother and be with your wife.....you still love your mother and respect her ,but always your wife comes first..
2007-01-10 03:01:55 · answer #7 · answered by slickcut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u think...any female around the age of yr mother is surfing here in yahoo answer ...so...most of females here are young...so they will always advised u to take care of yr wife....who will think of yr mother ?...so better u decide yr self and take necesity action , if yr old mom is really getting hasrred by yr wife.
2007-01-10 06:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wife--you took a contract to love, honor and Cherish you wife. Your wife and your child is your present and future.
2007-01-10 03:00:42 · answer #9 · answered by redrepair 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you love them both in different ways
there is a love for your mother and father
a different love for your partner
and a special love for your children
you shouldn't have to choose !!
2007-01-10 02:54:12 · answer #10 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋