and he usually asleep in the recliner so I wake him up and tell him to go to bed, he says I will, but falls asleep again I wake him over and over again and maybe 2 out 50 times a night of me trying to get him to go to bed he will- I have been doing this for a lot of years and I finally got tired of it and only wake him up a couple of times and if he doesn't go to bed I leave him in the chair- then when I get him up to go to work he yells at me for not making him go to bed- how do i change this situation before I lose it and go ballistic all over him???I tell him I woke him up and he yells "NO YOU DIDN"T" and I can't convince him otherwise- I have tape recorded it so he will know it is true but he won't listen to it! I feel like a freakin' parrot- "---- get up & go to bed"-- and 6 hours later" ----get up and go to work" It is insane and making me this way!!
2007-01-09 18:30:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Set up a video camera to record the incident. Don't give him a chance to say "I don't want to watch this" just hit play without telling him what it is. If he still wants to deny it after that, you have my permission to go ballistic on him.
2007-01-09 18:36:49 · answer #1 · answered by Jack S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's crazy. I have only one idea to help you. The next time he sits down in the recliner tell him to go to bed. Put a T.V. in the bedroom or whatever it is he does in the chair. Inform him that you will not be responsible for getting him out of his chair any longer. If he doesn't like it then tell him to go to his room. You are not his mother.
2007-01-09 18:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by Dude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats. for being married that long!
Yes, Get him an ALAMR CLOCK next to his chair!!!!
A second one next to the bed! Tell him you will no longer be waking him up! Instead of gratitude you get yelled at!
And for you, go sleep in another room where you can get some peace and quiet! It sounds like he's an over grown KID!
Honey, stop babysitting! Your his WIFE not Wake up call Service!@ Let us know how it goes!
2007-01-09 19:06:29 · answer #3 · answered by Pocahontas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, you seem to have an unhealthy relationship. If I am wrong, I stand corrected. So say the relationship is fine, this problem is very stressful for the both of you. My first instinct is to try to figure out another way to automatically wake him up. Anything from a clock radio to auto timer TV on, or something like that.
They do have these Sonic Alarm clocks that include a vibrating bed shaker, it could possibly wake him up better than an radio or alarm clock.
2007-01-09 18:39:53 · answer #4 · answered by StylerEX 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
An alarm clock positioned right over his head with the snooze button taken off will do it. If not that then get rid of the recliner!
2007-01-09 19:46:41 · answer #5 · answered by saturn man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot help being touched and leered at in public places but you should really not enjoy those touches. Atleast you should not let them know that you enjoy that touch otherwise that can go out of your hands within seconds and you will be sorry for the rest of your life. But why are you not with your husband, if he is in the same country then you stay with him and find a job there. You will surely be touched in busses there also but you will have your husband to go to in the night
2016-05-23 02:30:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake his behind up, my fiancee works late too, and sometimes he won't get up and I just push him until he gets up, he gets mad and he will get over it. Think about it the more miserable you make it for him to just fall asleep in the chair, he may actually get up and take him self to bed instead of being rudely awakened by you!
2007-01-09 18:36:57 · answer #7 · answered by nena b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Video Tape him then slip it in the dvd or what ever you might have. and turn it on when he is in front of the t.v. Or pester him until he gets up or help walk him to the bed. If that doesn't work then at least you tried to. Well hope that might get better.
2007-01-09 18:42:03 · answer #8 · answered by pullersgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him an alarm clock for by the recliner. He is a grownup and should be able to take care of it himself.
2007-01-09 18:36:25 · answer #9 · answered by Aviator1013 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have him spoiled doing this all those years.Tell the Big baby to learn to get up by himself, your not his mommy...I have a wonderful idea...Get you a loud alarm clock and set it right by his ear in his recliner let him know its there ,then call him and if he don,t respond let that alarm clock ring until he wakes up....If he yells at you tell him your sick of screaming your lungs out every night..He will finally catch on....You have spoiled him and now you have to unspoil him..
2007-01-09 18:48:41 · answer #10 · answered by slickcut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋