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2007-01-09 18:02:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
...if you are a girl. (who has always had feelings for guys)
2007-01-09 18:07:26 · update #1
i'd love to study more about dreams and get a better understanding for what they mean.
some people have dreams about happy experiences, and others have mostly nightmares..
i am a fairly depressed and unhappy person, so i tend to have dreams that explore my biggest secrets and biggest fears.
i crave love and sex, but haven't had much of either, so most of my dreams are about rejection..
your dreams could be taken either way.. it could be a sign that you are a lesbian and want to have sex with a woman...
or, it could be the total opposite. could be a sign that you are fearful of lesbianism..
i guess the next question. was this dream a good one? was this sex enjoyable? or was this more of a nightmare where you were doing something against your will or conscience?
overall, the most important thing, now that you are awake, how do you view your own sexuality?? be honest.. do you find yourself attracted to women? do you like the idea of sex with a woman? do you like the idea of dating/romance/ love with a woman? ...these questions will really be the key in deciding whether or not you are straight, bi, or lesbian
2007-01-09 18:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unlikely. To be a lesbian you must be attracted to other girls AND be repulsed by male sex.
You indicate in the details you are attracted to guys. I am assuming that male sex does not turn you off.
Your dream certainly indicates an attraction for other girls. It may mean you are bi.
I believe that most people (at least women--I don't know about guys--I think perhaps them as well though they are more reluctant to recoginze or acknowledge it) are bi to a lesser or greater extent.
You are bi-curious--in that the dream indicates a desire to find out about female sex. If it turned out that this was something you liked you would be confirmed bi-oriented. But, unless it also turned out that male sex was not a turn on at all--you would not be lesbian-oriented.
2007-01-09 19:51:53 · answer #2 · answered by beckychr007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are a girl and you think about or daydream about having sex with other girls i would say yes. but if you are just dreaming about it, but don't know why since you like guys and it kind of freaks you out that you dream about it, then i would say no, you're straight. don't worry i am a gay man and i went through a phase where i was dreaming about having sex with women and when i woke up i felt sick to my stomach and grossed out. and i wondered what was going on. eventually my dreams went away and they have never came back. maybe there is something that triggers dreams like that. maybe some kind of stress in every day life. who knows, but it can be nerve racking. good luck.
2007-01-09 18:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you dream about killing someone, does that make you a murderer? it was just a dream, why we have dreams like these? Many have theories, but no one really know why
Lesbians actually have sex with girls, they don't dream about it. Therefore you are probably not a lesbian
2007-01-09 18:10:04 · answer #4 · answered by half sam, half amazing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a dream that you were a vampire or a doctor or anything else...are you?
what makes you a lesbian or a doctor or what ever is what you do...follow the dream yes you are one...not follow it then you are not one...
My opinion only...
2007-01-09 18:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
as long as u don't have sex wit da gurl u still straight but when ur dream finally come true u will be a lesbian
2007-01-10 04:15:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex dreams mean nothing. Don't worry about it (unless you've got some other reason to question your sexuality).
2007-01-09 23:55:57 · answer #7 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not any more than having a dream about sex in outerspace would make me an astronaut or having sex in a field would make me a farmer, etc. . . .
2007-01-09 18:07:58 · answer #8 · answered by johnpickle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 12:17:46 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly it depends...Ask yourself--and answer honestly--Would you actually do what you did in your dreams....If so, try it out. From there...its a simple did you enjoy it or not? Whatever your answer is to that question, is you're answer to your main question.
2007-01-09 18:11:57 · answer #10 · answered by Shaun L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋