why are girls so much crueler to each other than boys?

Answer 1

Guys basically don't care that much. Especially young guys.

It seems to be the female nature to care about relationships more. They are more emotionally aware of others and intense in their feelings.

Guys tend not to care or even want to be very close emotionally to anyone, especially another male.

It's hard to be hurt by someone when you don't much care about their opinion or even think about much them.

Answer 2

Women are crueler to each other than men are to each other because society still validates women by their looks more than by their accomplishments than they do with men, so women are much more competitive in that area towards each other. I think this makes them more insecure and non-trusting and cruel with each other.

Answer 3

Girls are verbal creatures. They do not rely on physical power but social power to bond and unbond, and, oh hell, James Bond!

They use verbal actions like the way men use fists to act out violence on another chimpanzee.

However, they can be more dirty than man in hurting the other monkey woman. Whereas men seem to only want to "eliminate" the chimpanzee threat, woman seem to want to go further in making them "feel" suffering.

Usually, all of this goes away once the male alpha gorillas shows up on the scene. Hence, the need for male companionship to calm everything down. Which is what the whole screeching noise is about in the first place, anyway.

Answer 4

I don't know, but isn't it just BULLSH*T! They are so competitive with one another. I'm not like that, but I still have problems because any females I am around feel like they have to compete with me or something. So then it's like all women are out to get one another & there's no rules either. They can be & will be as cruel as humanly possible to achieve their goal & ruin whatever woman's life is in the way. I had a best friend once that tried to take my life over. She almost successfully stole my husband & tried to take over my children. I had suddenly became her enemy & apparently I was in a battle that I knew nothing about until it was almost too late & there was no talking woman to woman about anything. It was horrible & this was my friend. I hate to see what an enemy would've done. It actually would've probably been easier if it had been an enemy since at least I'd already hate her. Nope they pull the sneak attack on ya. I have a hard time trusting all women & I hate to be that way but as you said, they can be cruel creatures. I rarely have female friends anymore. They hide too much or wear a mask. Men are blunt, to the point, & you say what you have to say & that's it~

Answer 5

Girls are more emotional and competative than guys. Guys are also often brought up in environments where they are used to being teased by their dads and they release all their tension on the sports field, they as a result learn to subconsciously deal with each other in a more physical controlled environment. Girls on the other hand don't have as much of an outlet to release the tension so it builds up. It soon just becomes normal to be nasty, I think more girls should play sport... and computer games:)

Answer 6

Insecure girls with loads of issues are cruel to anyone. Even towards unsuspecting guys.

A well-balanced, secure, girl with loads of confidence will have nothing to do with those types of girls. :-)

Btw, I'm a gal who hangs out with guys, I know for a fact that guys are and can be just as cruel to each other. Yep! Guys gossip too.

However, guys are more likely to be physically rough on each other; women are more verbal than guys... ;)) It has been said that the tongue is sharper than a sword! (evil gals!! :-L Grrr!)

But there are many gals who can also be more physical than verbal, and vice versa for guys... Well, you know what i mean.

Just ignore them, walk away and mind your own business. If they attempt to drag you in to their issues, just go on your own merry way and have absolutely nothing to do with them. You really have a choice. You don't have to deal with their issues.

Be well! :-)

Answer 7

you're just saying that because you are a girl and you dont hang out with men a lot. if you did, you'd see which one is crueler

Answer 8

Guys are less emotional...we would just laugh at a guy that tries to be cruel to us, maybe call him something nasty and move on to the next subject. This kind of personality (in most men) is what p-isses a women and more sensitive guys off cause they are unable to get men wound up.

Answer 9

girls just go behind each others backs more and are more inventive when being mean to someone they don't like - guys are more upfront but are more likely to be physical - beating each other up etc.

Answer 10

Girls all about the looks. So jealousy plays into everything. Girls are also very possesive of everything. Girls are also not being taught how to be young ladies any more.