We have two kid, 4 years and 7 weeks old. I think I might want another some day (not for sure about that) but my husband is set on just having two. He even wants to get fixed so he can't have anymore. How do I talk him into waiting and maybe considering a third baby in the future? I am 25 he is 28.
2007-01-09 17:10:48 · 10 answers · asked by honeybear 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Before anyone does anything drastic - sit down and have a good discussion. Listen to why he doesn't want another child and have him listen as to why you do want another child.
2007-01-09 17:16:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 14:26:56 · answer #2 · answered by ensign 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy but, make a deal with him tell him wait 3 years then if he still wants no more babies then walk him to the snippers but if he has concidered another one hurry up and concieve before he changes his mind.
2007-01-09 17:20:28 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Geez your kid is 7 weeks old
The poor guy hasnt gotten any sleep in at least that long
Dont bring up this conversation again until your baby can sleep thru the night
2007-01-09 18:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by kissmymiddlefinger 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you dont convice him of anything, you just talk to hm and let him
know that down the road you might want another child.but if
he really set on this then done pressure him then this may
cause trouble for you and your marriage.
2007-01-09 17:34:41 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To the ladies above: That's right, trap him. That's the way to encourage a healthy relationship.
What if he figures out your deception and dumps you? Then where will you be?
And if you think deceiving him for your own gain is OK, can he select to deceive you to do something YOU don't want?
You ladies are FREAKS...
2007-01-09 17:19:16 · answer #6 · answered by Jon A 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try sitting down with him and explaining that you may want another baby.
2007-01-09 17:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by lumachoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you'll leave him or something crap I don't know damn go off Birth control or somethin and don't tell him, sh1t you guys already have two, one more ain't sh1t, explain the tax benefits to him.
2007-01-09 17:18:30 · answer #8 · answered by rockmyrolll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get pregnant women can do this with out so much help
2007-01-09 17:14:42 · answer #9 · answered by john t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
f him while he sleep, make him *** in u
2007-01-09 17:16:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋