Hi! I'm 13, 5' 5'',160 pounds, I have curly/wavy hair (wavy at top and bottom, curly in middle) and it's brown, when I brush it its all wavy, and I wash it every day. I have teenage probs (normal ones like zits and hormones, crushes, you get it) and I'm sort of tanned I have light olive skin. I don't usually wear make-up, but I wear lots of jewelry. I've never had a boyfriend and all of my friends have a boyfriend. I'm an Aquarius, which means I'm fun and crazy and weird, but sometimes, I can't be serious, but when i AM serious, i'm REALLY serious. My teeth have a gap (but I don't care about them I [heart] my teeth, they give me personality) and I only have a couple of guyfriends. Am I ugly? It feels like no one's liked me since the 2nd grade. HELP ME!!!!!!!! My cousin told me that like 3 people have a crush on me and one person is in love with me, but how can that be true I only know (like really really know) only 2 or 3 guys. I can make either the BEST or WORST of friends with sum1.
2007-01-09 16:48:29 · 14 answers · asked by Murr;; Fang 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
I do like myself! It's just that I don't know is BOYS like me!!!!!!
2007-01-09 16:57:18 · update #1
Oh yea and I'm in all the AT classes and I'm passing and blah blah (srry if I sound like i'm in love withmyself!!!)
2007-01-09 16:58:37 · update #2
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1 SYMPTOMS
2 CAUSES OF ACNE
2.1 MISCONCEPTIONS ABOUT CAUSES
3 TREATMENTS
3.1 TIMELINE OF ACNE TREATMENT
3.2 AVAILABLE TREATMENTS
3.2.1 Exfoliating the skin
3.2.2 Topical Bactericidals
3.2.3 Topical antibiotics
3.2.4 Oral antibiotics
3.2.5 Hormonal treatments
3.2.6 External retinoids
3.2.7 Oral retinoids
3.2.8 Phototherapy
3.2.8.1 Blue and red light
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3.3 Less widely used treatments
3.4 FUTURE TREATMENTS
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4 ACNE SCARS
5 See also
6 References
7 Footnotes
8 External links
2007-01-10 12:16:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're 13. Give it a break. Concentrate on making YOU a great person, and being a great friend to others, focus on school. You have your whole life ahead of you to worry about boys, and all the rest of it. It doesn't really matter if you are pretty or not, what matters is you ON THE INSIDE. Your greatest asset right now is your brain. Use it. Do well in school, be the best you can be, and one day when it is the "right time" someone will come along who will like YOU for YOU. My son is 15, and he comes home from school all the time and tells me about the girls he has known from the time he was 10 who are now pregnant, etc. Worry about yourself, and forget the rest of it. Be the best that you can be and the rest will fall into place. (By the way, I also have a 12 year old daughter and I tell her the same things!) Good luck!
2007-01-09 16:57:07 · answer #2 · answered by nerdy girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tone down the jewellery. Less is best.
Also here is a tip. You are only ugly if you think you are ugly.
If you walk into a room and think I am the ugliest person here, no one will give you a second glance.
BUT
If you were to walk into a room and think I am very pretty you will get a lot of notice.
But thinking good things about yourself you start to show more confidence in who you are.
Speaking from experience, a lot of guys are attracted to confident women.
Give it a shot.
Good luck to y'all.
P.S. From the sounds of things you are going to grow into a really beautiful woman. If they don't notice you now they will real soon.
2007-01-09 17:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by Spikey and Scruffy's Mummy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first suggestion is to not wear so much jewelry, its amazing one or two nice pieces is really good looking.
You sound like a real fun loving person. Personality is more important than out-an-out beauty (beauty will fade, but personality is here to stay). Don't worry, your 13, there's plenty of time left for boyfriends. At this point, I wouldn't tye myself down to one boyfriend, but lots of boy friends.
2007-01-09 18:43:21 · answer #4 · answered by Terry Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the question here is do you love yourself? Really, don't laugh. Loving yourself is important. How can you expect someone else to be attracted to your outside if your inside is a mess? Try to get to know the inner you and the light within will radiate. Grow, young one. And believe that you are loved for who you are, not what you look like.
2007-01-09 16:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by starryeyedfrida 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think whats best is that you accept what your cousin told you and go for the guys, you need experience so you declining those offers will only worsen your problems. Trust me you want the experience friendship, or not you dont have to love the person or kiss them, but trust me friends can become lovers easily...
2007-01-09 16:54:32 · answer #6 · answered by playaxn1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
surprise surprise..not all beautiful girls get boyfriends.
relax! you said your age is just 13..you're still young, might not have a developed full body yet. there're no hurry..believe me... i had my first bf when i was 15 and i totally regretted it. its because now that am 24, looking back, that i realize it. but when i was 15 and had a bf, i felt it was right..oh, you know what i mean.
don't go looking for a bf just because all your friends have one. and it doesn't (echoes:DOESN"T!!!!) mean that you're ugly. guys who go for pretty girls are alot..they come and go. really come and go.
be confident! that adds to your apperance too. if people see that you're confident with how you look, you get better impact on them.
and besides, you don't really want a bf who just goes for your looks. we all search for someone who loves us the way we are. (its too much hassle and not to mention stressing when we have to LOOk the way our man wants us to look, we can never enjoy being ourselves that way).
true love will come my dear. when it does, you may tell that guy that he's the only one you will and ever will love. now, isn't that romantic?
feel you're pretty and you will be!! :) always smile, nothing better than a bright/flirty/sweet smile to capture a guy's heart.
ps. it's better for guys to come flocking to you than you to go after them. you won't believe a guy's ego if you're going after them.
2007-01-09 17:05:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are fine. Sounds like you don't know when guys like you. I wouldn't worry about all that. There will be PLENTY of guys in college. All of these people will be just a memory in a few years. Concentrate on your classes.
2007-01-09 16:55:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every girl has that problem. We all have problems trying to figure out if we are "normal", "likable", or "crush worthy". The truth is EVERY one of you are. Everyone will be liked on point or another in life.
2007-01-09 16:57:07 · answer #9 · answered by girl with questions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a real individual and you should have no trouble getting a boyfriend if thats what you really want
get out there and meet more people
2007-01-09 16:54:28 · answer #10 · answered by Mike H 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋