Okay, so I have been doing alot of.....looking around in myspace(call it stocking if you will but It was just for personal research) and I got jealous. Cause all the hot I mean smoking hot lesbians are with the ugly a$s fat butch lesbians and it makes me sick! I though hot lesbians were into lesbians that actually look like girl.*sigh* How could they get with them when they could do alot better?? Should I start dressing like a guy and cut my hair like a guy in order to get a hot girl? All the hot ones claim to be in love with the bull dykes. Yes, I am outraged about this. Have any of you noticed it to(you know ugly bull dykes getting with hot femme lesbians) What do u think I should do, should I become a fat bull dyke?? If I do do you think I will then get with the hot femmes?
2007-01-09 16:36:59 · 22 answers · asked by HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
what do u think I should do???
2007-01-09 16:38:28 · update #1
I hate to break this to you but you don't look so hot to me. SO you should have a great chance..
As for great looking women maybe they see that some of the larger ladies are the best when it comes to real love. They know what it is like to have people judge them and treat them bad so they don't do it. Give me a woman that would love me over a super model any day.
2007-01-09 17:56:10 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask yourself are you looking for love or looking for sex. True love does not look at the exterior but the inner person. Which makes a woman's appearance a moot question . Many people now a days seem to have forgotten how to become friends before lovers . What you should do is be yourself. The last thing you want to do is to play a role . coming off as something your not . I am sure there will be a woman who sees both your inner and outer beauty.
I really don't condone casual sex , but that's a personal choice . So I cant help you in that area . Good luck in what ever you decide.
2007-01-09 17:12:09 · answer #2 · answered by Peace of Mind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change for anyone. And maybe you're looking in the wrong places. I know what you mean about the hot lesbians with the butch girls, but there are also a lot of cases where its two hot and two butch. Even in gay relationships you can find masculine and feminine qualities in two people coming together.
2007-01-09 16:45:31 · answer #3 · answered by * Terri * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be they like each other for reasons other than looks? I don't know if I should take you seriously or not. SO, good luck?
Hey folks, I'm pretty sure she's being sarcastic asking if she should become a bull dyke. I'd ignore that portion.
2007-01-09 18:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by T 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you're only looking for a hot female, then the first thing i suggest you do is grow up. secondly, i suggest you never change who you are just to get with a person. you should always be yourself. a lot of people think they know what this means, but in reality they have no clue. as for finding someone, it will take time, im guessing you are young, if you are, you have a lot of growing up to do, and in the process you will be sure to find a perfect match
2007-01-09 16:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by J J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am bi but the women i tend to be attracted to are butch lesbians too. Femi's don't turn me on at all. Maybe because i like men the butch are more appealing to me. Dont know about other girls but that why i like butch. But I do know a couple of Feminine girls together and one butch couple.
2007-01-09 17:01:57 · answer #6 · answered by betterwithage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever hear of liking someone for what is on the inside... their personality??
You might be physically gorgeous, but you sound very unattractive in the way you write.
You really have a LOT to learn about human sexuality.
Good luck... you'll need it!
2007-01-09 16:44:14 · answer #7 · answered by Zombie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should be less of an ugly person on the inside. With all the shallow judgement going on, I wouldn't date you.
Also, learn some queer history; might do you some good.
2007-01-09 23:58:03 · answer #8 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you could ASK the femmes what they like about their partners. Like really. You might find that they are attracted to more than appearances?
2007-01-09 16:41:43 · answer #9 · answered by mountain woman 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL
WHO ARE YOU TO JUDGE WHAT OTHER PEOPLE WANT IT A RELATIONSHIP,
AND SECONDLY,
FOR GODS SAKE DON'T CHANGE WHO YOU ARE TO TRY AND FIND HAPPINESS.
IF I LEARNED ONE THING IN LIFE IT IS TO BE MYSELF AND TO HELL WITH WHAT ANYBODY ELSE THINKS,AND TO GIVE EVERYBODY ELSE THE SAME CHOICE, AS LONG AS THEY DON'T TRY TO STEP ON MY PARADE.
I HAVE ALSO LEARNED TO BE UPFRONT ABOUT WHAT I WANT AND WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR.
OF COURSE THIS COMES FROM A MALE SO TAKE IT FOR WHAT ITS WORTH.
BUT DO BE YOURSELF AND ASK FOR GODS HELP IN FINDING SOMEONE YOU CAN TRULY LOVE, THAT LOVES YOU BACK, IF ALL YOU WANT IS SEX THEN YOUR ON THE WRONG TRACK BECAUSE UNTIL YOU GET SERIOUS ABOUT A RELATIONSHIP SOMEONE ALWAYS GETS HURT, NO MATTER HOW UPFRONT YOU ARE ABOUT JUST WANTING SEX.
AGAIN I'M JUST A HAPPILY, AND I DO MEAN HAPPILY MARRIED MAN.
2007-01-09 17:13:39 · answer #10 · answered by DALE R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋