cuz she needs 2get her act 2gether.then we wil get back together ,,maybe??.i dnt kno wat 2 do. i need help!!! do i still talk to her? She says she still loves me but she jus doesnt wana hurt me until she gets her act together. She says we will "probably" get bak together. I love her alot but i dont know what to do . any advice wuld help
2007-01-09 15:58:03 · 14 answers · asked by Eric 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she wants 2 go with other guys.
2007-01-15 09:19:54 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she may be trying to give you up,the best thing to do is put a pause on the relationship so that you can both breath she might be mixed up but she also might want to see someone else but wants to keep so to speak on the back-burner just in case.
try and move on this will be hard but you must or your head will get addled wondering all the time when they say hurt you that usually means dumping you but she may become your best freind so don't do anything daft that could ruin that relationship.lets hope i am wrong.
2007-01-15 19:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by The tagg master 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for starters ,try to stay committed to her while she needs a little time to get herself together, i mean dont wait forever,but if it is just a few weeks or so. Be there for her if she calls and needs to talk to you . Alot of times people DO need time to theirselves to just get their lives back the way they want them and i am sure that she will realize how much she misses and loves you as long as you continue to still talk to her. I mean dont let her use you either by like taking forever to decide what she wants because you have a life yourself!!! But if you love her like you say then i think you will wait for a few weeks for her.......And then she will know what kind of man she really has!!! Good luck to you!!!
2007-01-09 16:12:41 · answer #3 · answered by littleEfan25 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just wonder how old you both are? Give her the space she is asking for. Do your own thing i.e. go out and meet other people and have some fun. You may get back together eventually or you might meet someone you like more.
2007-01-14 05:41:23 · answer #4 · answered by chelsea19622000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her if this break means going out with other people.
If so, she feels she's missing out on something by being with you.
You have to let her have her space and do her own thing.
Yes, it will hurt you if you see her with someone else, but, you must go out with other people too.
If your meant to be together you will be.But you cannot make anyone love you.
It's only when you see someone you care for with someone else you will know your true feelings for them,and that goes for you and her.
Good luck, and remember, you'll never hold someone in a relationship if they don't want to be there.
2007-01-09 17:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by animalwatch 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think if she is able to tell you what she specifically means about 'getting her act together' and it doesnt sound lame, then I feel that she might be genuine, and so you should give her time.
But, if not, I would probably reconsider the relationship- all the best.
2007-01-09 16:26:54 · answer #6 · answered by its_just_me 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Umm properly from my own very own journey, inquiring for a "wreck" is in simple terms the undemanding way out and the pre-cursor to a wreck up. I asked my ex for a "wreck" as properly, I mentioned that I felt smothered and that i mandatory area, and the 1st time I asked for a wreck it lasted like a million-2 days and he weaseled his some time past into my existence, and then then i attempted inquiring for a wreck back months later, yet i replaced into so depressing and that i replaced into actual in simple terms attempting to end it completely, and he began begging for a 2d possibility and that he does not be so needy and clingy and that he could make me happy and he in simple terms mandatory of project to instruct me he could make me happy. actual, once you at the instant are not pleased with somebody, and you're inquiring for a wreck, i don't think of there is a lot the different guy or woman can do. the only inquiring for a wreck is on the snapping element, very at a loss for words, and for me, while my bf on the time stored inquiring for of project and asserting we could be happy, i replaced into like... actual, in simple terms quit. i'm not happy, and you do not make me happy. Getting back at the same time won't make me happy, i've got been with you for this long, i understand who you're, I in simple terms would desire to get out. In my concern I under no circumstances went back to him. I left him for somebody else. I have no theory what's dealing with your gf's head, and no theory what her definition of controlling is... you will in simple terms would desire to attend and notice what she decides.
2016-10-30 12:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by santolucito 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go! We are all individual souls who sometimes need to fly alone! Get on with your own life, however hard it may seem to go it alone at the mo! If you are right for each other,she'll come back, who knows you may find love elsewhere. Good Luck!
2007-01-15 04:45:05 · answer #8 · answered by gypsy girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give her the space, it could work out really well for you, ask her if its ok for you to talk to her still and ask her if she needs or wants you to do anything for her. Tell her that you will be there for her, but give her the space she wants/needs.
2007-01-09 16:03:54 · answer #9 · answered by Don A 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just give her some space and give your relationship time because good things come to those who wait!
2007-01-15 21:30:09 · answer #10 · answered by sofia k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋