Someone you talk openly with and trust with your secrets?
2007-01-09 15:51:19 · 16 answers · asked by S K 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No. My husband is my best friend. He's the one who knows everything about me and the one I can always confide in. I have a real best friend who im also open with but no one like my husband.
2007-01-09 17:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by LD82 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think that would be right. Emotional intimacy should be between wives and their husbands. If it is not there, then the marriage needs work, and confiding in another man is NOT going to help things. When woman does this either online or in person, it forms emotional attachments for her that are 'usually' not appropriate for a married woman.
2007-01-09 23:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by Cris O 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No the man I married is my best friend (18 years) and there is no one I would rather share my secrets with then him.
2007-01-09 23:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by Shepherdgirl § 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, actually i do. he's called my husband.
there is a thing called emotional affairs. what you wrote there is exactly what it is - talking to someone OTHER THAN YOUR HUSBAND - about your life and secrets. it's okay to say things are great, but when it comes down to it - it should be as surfacy as that. no details should be shared. if there is a problem with your marriage, stfu about it because the only people who should talk about it are the married couple. why would we want to talk to someone else about private things other than our husbands?
on another note, if you are advertising yourself as one of those men, i hope you get plunged in the *** with a knife.
2007-01-10 03:34:06 · answer #4 · answered by Shakti Svātantrya Isa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im not married but i do have a bf and yeas i also have a male friend online that i do confide in and tell everything to hes a great friend and he lives 300 miles away
2007-01-10 01:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by Jeannie T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a BIG NO! NO! If a person cannot confide in there own spouse then they have a problem, and the answer to your question is NO never.
2007-01-10 00:02:15 · answer #6 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I do confide in my lover though, but outside of him I don't really have a need as I'm really not that social and online relationships are so pointless.
2007-01-10 00:00:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2007-01-09 23:57:52 · answer #8 · answered by RiverGirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
double standards by the women on here. a marraige counsellor once told me that you should live your life "transparently" meaning you should not do anything privately that you wouldn't do in front of your spouse. i say BS. good for you all that you have such wonderfully open lines of communication with your husbands. it ain't the same the other way around sorry to say.
2007-01-10 00:30:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I have a real-life man to confide in.
2007-01-09 23:55:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋