I alwayz kind of liked this gurl since I was a kid and vise versa. She had a kid at 16 with a deadbeat dad who would never see his daughter. We were pretty close friends, but I had been in a messed up relationship for about 2yrs prior. Me and this gurl would talk still but I never made the move. Whatever my retarded reason was, I stayed with my gurl for 2 more years, plus I was having a baby. But I always thought about this other girl even though I tried to stay for my own daughter. My babymom ended up being unfaithful so now Im single. See there was also a guy that this other girl was talking to before, and because I moved on in her eyes, she got married and now has another daughter (total of 2kids). We're talking now for a few weeks again and she is gettin divorced. See she got married for getting pregnant more than for love. Her bro tells me how much she missed me over the yrs &she never 4got me. Now there are 3kids , but I really care bout her as does she me. Should I be with her?
2007-01-09 15:45:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sure why the heck not..if it's true love...you should be with her...
2007-01-09 15:50:29 · answer #1 · answered by BabyBlues 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sounds like the two of you winners are really made for each other, together you can overpopulate the planet. Or, you could do this girl a favor and introduce her to *gasp* BIRTH CONTROL! (You know, they have such a thing nowadays, it's so hi-tech and all...)
2007-01-09 23:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Senor Italiano,
Let me tell ask you ONE importan QUESTION: Do U Regret Having a Baby Daughter?....
If You answered YES...then YOU SHOULD NOT BE WITH THIS GIRL...if You HONESTLY answered NO...then YOU should be with her!!!
Simple Answer to A VERY COMPLEX question...figure it out. AND if for whatever reasons you haven't come up with a "Solution" to this answer or a "Reason"...hit me up at my E-Mail place...I'll Be happy 2 give you further advise..**wink**
Ciao,
Ferrari Girl
2007-01-09 23:55:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no. there's a lot to risk. move on with your life. if she's not happy with that guy, why would she get pregnant and have lots of kids. even if she hasn't forgotten about you, it doesn't mean she really loves you. if she loves you, she will control herself from having sex and fix her life just to be with you. common, you're already ahead of her..you're better off. don't messed up your life like hers. find a woman who's willing to grow with you and learn from you. move on. good luck.
2007-01-09 23:53:56 · answer #4 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. True feelings never change. Sounds like she's your ''true love''.
Run after that Woman before you lose her again!
Take it! Take it!
2007-01-09 23:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Cricket 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since neither of you seemed to be able to get each other out of your heads, I'd say give it a try. Who knows she may just be the one. ;o) good luck
2007-01-09 23:52:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you know how you feel. but if you want to get with this girl
then go for it.but i would just take it slow and see how it goes
there are three kids invovled as well so that should come in
play as well.
2007-01-10 00:36:05 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, don't wait for 10 more kids to figure it out.
Good luck!
2007-01-09 23:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by texas tornado 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I think you already know the answer, sounds like you belong together, go for it, it you don't at least try, you will never know...good luck...
2007-01-09 23:53:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
damn man sounds like a pretty deep situation.... i dont think it should be in our hands to tell you what to do... this is YOUR life we're talking about... take your time and think about whats best for you and all the children
2007-01-09 23:50:37 · answer #10 · answered by Jordan23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
definetely, if there's love. I mean, you probably both care bout each other. So maybe you should try and get closer. maybe start over.
2007-01-09 23:51:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋