Me and my boyfriend has been together three months and last night he told me that his ex-girlfriend is pregnant with his child(no he didn't cheat..the baby was concieved before our relationship) but anyway now she's screaming that she think that they should be together for the baby sake and even though she tells me that he don't want her anymore some of his actions is questionable?(They have a history together and we don't and if i stay I would have to deal with her drama so what should I do???????)
2007-01-09 15:20:53 · 8 answers · asked by Sexii Slim 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Back off for awhile. Give your boyfriend space to work out his problems and decide what he wants in life. Be there only as someone he can talk to.
2007-01-09 15:48:55 · answer #1 · answered by Lock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is having his baby then he better stay in the picture. he has to be a father to that child or he's no good. no he doesnt have to get back with her but hes a dead-beat-dad if he doesnt want anything to do with the baby. and he may have to pay child support. and yes you will be in the middle of all the drama as long as you are with him. but only leave him if you arent ready for the family.
2007-01-09 23:30:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how much you love him. My honest opinion though.. get out now.. she isnt going away anytime soon especially is she is screaming that they should be together. This is something he will have to decide on his own.. but if he is a good daddy.. then he will be there for the baby. So... meaning.. so will the mom.. and it sounds like she isnt willing to be nice about it.
2007-01-09 23:27:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is soooo much drama...... drama u are too young for.... you can remain friends with him but the best thing is to move on and explore if he is worth living in drama for. if he is your soulmate..you and him will find yall way back to each other one day, if not then you know you made the right choice by leaving and finding happiness elsewhere. I know thats hard to leave someone you care for but it happens in life and alot of ppl are going through that.
2007-01-09 23:33:32 · answer #4 · answered by La'Grange 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should leave, it will only get more crazy as the chlld come
into the picture, and you only been with him 3 months and think
about the fact that he has to deal with this girl for the next 18
years and that could be drama in it self. trust me. this could]be
more then you can handle. and really you dont need it.
2007-01-10 01:31:48 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out ASAP. you don't need this kinda of drama in your life. you don't need to be stressed out due to other people's actions.
2007-01-09 23:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by truth hurts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave now before you invest any more time and any more of yourself in this relationship. Good luck.
2007-01-09 23:27:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not related to Kevin Feterline is he?
If I were you I would dump him before his problems become yours
2007-01-11 01:02:44 · answer #8 · answered by Fox 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋