Then was mad at me! Saying how I make everything about me. When all I was trying to explain is "you ditched me 2 times, left me at the show without a ride, shouldn't i be mad at you?"
She's NOT AT ALL sorry.
She makes everyone think she is such an awesome sweet girl, when clearly is not.
WHAT SHOULD I DO?
Seek out revenge? (but I may feel guilty like I'm sinking to her level...though it would be sweet!)
Or let it go or what?
But I can say I no longer consider her my friend. ...she's crazy to be mad at me when I did nothing!
2007-01-09 15:20:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To Leer questions: yes, we came together and planed on leaving together and crowd surfing was not a worry.
2007-01-09 15:35:53 · update #1
My dear, this girl IS NOT YOUR FRIEND. A friend never leaves one behind to fend a ride for themselves EVER! Girlfriend rule number one is "You come with me, you go home with me", that includes concerts, bars, pubs, games, parties, etc. A friend who leaves you and places you in danger to find a ride home from some event, places you in danger of accepting rides from inappropiate people, unknown to you, or not an appropiate choice. Also, if you didn't make it home, would she know who to tell? If your Mom called wanting to know where you were, or who you were with, could she tell her? NO! Cause she LEFT YOU! Personally, I wouldn't waste another breath on this loser of a gf, and I would start looking for a more reliable, dependable and loyal friend. This one is clearly not the one! GHood luck!
2007-01-09 15:29:21 · answer #1 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-02 01:56:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend like that... she would expect me to sit around while she hung out with her boyfriend but get mad at me for wanting to go to my boyfriends the next day.... but now she lost her boyfriend and is trying to ruin my relationship .... so im thinking maybe they are both a lil SELFISH and could make a great couple of friends HA!
2007-01-09 16:08:11 · answer #3 · answered by care_bears1608 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you go to the concert together? did you plan to all leave at the same time? did they get seperated on purpose, or was it a case of crowd surfing to the other side of the venue?
regardless of what her justifications are, do what feels right.
2007-01-09 15:27:10 · answer #4 · answered by leer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all after twice, ?
I would not give her the chance to do it again.
For sure you can not count on your friend to be there for you.
Forget about the revenge, just let her go her own way.
Good luck to you.let us know how it works out.
2007-01-09 15:26:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Getting revenge won't solve anything. Stop inviting her to concerts and stop relying on her for company. This isn't a real "friend".
2007-01-09 15:24:07 · answer #6 · answered by Developing Minds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me. It's time for some payback, sounds like this girl needs a taste of her own medicine. My advice is to find a way to ditch the b***h. Make her find a way home.
2007-01-09 15:36:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I had a friend like that. She was a selfish little b****. Just get rid of her and make some new friends. Try out myspace.
2007-01-09 15:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by Gwen C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop hanging out with her, if a friend will ditch you twice, she's not a real friend. and the next time she wants to hang out, tell her no, because you dont want to get ditched again!
2007-01-09 15:25:42 · answer #9 · answered by superyduperymommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude thats just WRONG! forget her! I'm sure u learned ur lesson and u wont do it again. cuz i def. wouldnt trust her. but hey if the chance does arise where u can get ur lick back. go for it as long as it's simple.
2007-01-09 15:25:54 · answer #10 · answered by GG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋