i got really upset becuase i knew they had slept together.. keep in mind i am only 18.. but i couldnt focus the rest of the night and it really bothered me.. i just kept feeling like, omg they slept together, and here he was giving her a hug and saying, we should hang out sometime..
is that normal? to be a little obsessive over the ex gfs and get upset like that?
2007-01-09 15:19:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes it is normal, only because you will be sub consciously comparing. It sounds like they split up as friends, if your are unsure of your relationship talk with him about it.
I can say that most, not all, but most women and men have felt this way to a certain degree at one stage in their lives.
2007-01-09 15:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by polynesiachick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, I know exactly where you are coming from. I am im my mid-forties and have been going out with my man for over six months and we will be marrying soon.But I am still very jealous over his ex-gf's that he had in the past. I know he won't do anything with them coz he loves me, but to trust is very hard, especially when someone has really hurt you in the past. Now you are only 18, I hope that you can grow out of this, but really if your b/f slept with his ex, is he worth all this worry? I wouldn't bother with him if I was you coz he cheated on you! I hope that you find yourself a really decent boy. Good Luck!!
2007-01-09 15:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by saau2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't said how long you have been together, but I will assume not all that long....It is common to be a little insecure about a past girlfriend, but keep in mind he can't change his past, same as you can't change yours and remember he is with you right. Also, you have to admire how he respects his previous girlfriend even though things didn't work out, that says alot about his character. Don't dwell on it ... enjoy your time with him and let the past be the past.
2007-01-09 15:29:05 · answer #3 · answered by sd_crane 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it relies upon on the folk in contact and a extensive element commonplace as..... the breakup. (and the circumstances around the loss of life of the romance) have faith it or no longer, the relationship itself that they had as enthusiasts determines their skill of having a friendship interior the destiny. in case you respected one yet another as enthusiasts threat is you in addition to mght admire that individual as a individual and might regard to them as pals ought to. particular, that's confusing or particularly hassle-free it surely relies upon on the events in contact. ought to friendships with exes do no influence the previous enthusiasts however the recent ones who can't obtainable start to appreciate why might you opt to be pals with your ex....whilst relatively there's no longer something there think of approximately it?? if that replaced into the case they may well be currents no longer exes... I surely have some pals who have been in contact with me interior the previous and that i will even evaluate them exes because of the fact they are costly pals and honestly the friendship has a deeper meaning than any rendezvous we could have had interior the previous.... others are terrible human beings, I choose I on no account dated nor will I ever opt to stay pals with...i wish you get my component
2016-10-06 22:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by greenwell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't hate the ex.....why not? because if the ex is the one who left him in the first place..you should be thankful for her because if she would not have ever left him then you and him would of never met.
now also don't be jealous of the ex because if you are then that means there may be trust issues inbetween you and your man, you don't need those kind of issues.
just play it fair...if he wants to hang out with her...make sure it is a group thing....being fair and truthful.
2007-01-09 15:36:31 · answer #5 · answered by La'Grange 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure it's normal. It would really bother me, too, and I am a lot older than you are.
2007-01-09 16:03:36 · answer #6 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um its not normal that ur boyfriend would hug his ex infront of u so yea that should bother u it would bother me
2007-01-09 15:25:09 · answer #7 · answered by lilbeezy14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is normal..why not?
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2007-01-09 15:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋