2007-01-09 15:14:27 · 14 answers · asked by B_REAL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
By being subtle. Don't dump it all out there at once. Start with the most mild of your fantasies and introduce a new one once a month or so. It may sound like the slow approach but in the end it will give you the opportunity to really explore each of these fantasies with each other in a non threatening way. Overall remember though that if your partner isn't into something you have to accept that. You wouldn't want to be manipulated into doing something either.
2007-01-09 15:21:58 · answer #1 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try something's you would never have tried before!!! Role play and no I am not talking about the corky nurse get up.. I am talking about walking into the living room while he is looking at T.V totally naked then take the remote and stick it where you would like for him to stick his woo-woo or try taking a nice bubble bath together and then hold your breath and go downtown so he can see the bubbles come from your mouth up to his navel.. My favorite is hair pulling doing it in a place that feels like we might get busted at any moment!!!! I won't mention some of the places I have been but don't get it twisted I am very much a lady and I only do these things with my man!!!!!
2007-01-09 15:29:28 · answer #2 · answered by Jazzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch a movie together and get ideas on what you want to try. Alo try doing things in different places. In the car or go for a walk at the park. Just have to try different things in different places. The risk makes it exciting.
2007-01-09 15:21:53 · answer #3 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Adam&Eve.com, shop online for some really sexy lingerie, sex toys like vibrators and a bondage kit (they have them in different colors - I got black but you can get leopard print etc.), experiment with lubricants, oils and lotions. I got a lotion that heats up when you blow on it and it's really get for oral sex...Don't be afraid to look into books on Erotica or even buying some porn DVDs if you are comfortable with that. This company will send you free ones with your order and give you really good discounts...
Good luck and happy humping!!!!
2007-01-09 15:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a man? please give me more info, if you are a man, women need and want romance, flowers candles, you cleaning doing the dishes, you doing laundry, anything you can do to make her life easier will turn her on, even just saying nice things about her. How bout just going down and not wanting anything else, does she have toys? You use them on her, don't expect anyting in return just do it.
2007-01-09 15:29:00 · answer #5 · answered by littlegirllost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Letting out the freak in you, or getting the freak out in her?
2007-01-09 15:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by mt_hopper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and new things to your sex life,take a trip to your toy store with your spouse and pick out things together to try.it works for us
2007-01-09 15:18:58 · answer #7 · answered by starr67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the type of freak your looking for, whips and chains or less?
2007-01-09 15:18:56 · answer #8 · answered by Joshua D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try dress up and role play....let the fun begin.. also google some ideas. happy play time!!
2007-01-09 15:21:15 · answer #9 · answered by Shayla L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try some toys.
2007-01-09 15:20:49 · answer #10 · answered by Ms Lety 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋