i feel depressed and everyone hates me. i KNOW two of my friends hate me because they always say bad stuff about me behind my back. and i never did anything to hurt them. they just hate me. i feel as if the whole world hates me now. plus i'm sooo stressed about school. i don't know what to do, i feel as if my life is about to end...
so what should i do is the question...
2007-01-09 15:14:11 · 9 answers · asked by i like turtles 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
plus they don't hate other people who have done some things to hurt them.
2007-01-09 15:14:47 · update #1
The best remedy/medicine is to ignore those people who obviously mean nothing to you. Why are you wasting so much energy on who says what. Words are words, ignore them. If you keep stressing over them and they're aware of it, then they'll keep on harrassing you. Focus on school and the good things you have going for you. You're obviously a caring sensitive person or you wouldn't give a damn. So use those good qualities to your advantage and the heck with those people.... keep smiling kiddo.
2007-01-09 15:33:38 · answer #1 · answered by spider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing is in this world their is always going to be people who don't like us who hate us who turn on us. It is the nature of this material world called Maya (illusion) This is not our real home it is temporary and full of misery. See the DVD the Trueman show to get and idea of what I mean. go to stephen-knapp. read e-book the key to real happiness and Towards World Peace Seeing the Unity between us all. The reason why your Friends are like that is because they have envy in thier hearts and they don't know we are all spiritual brothers and sisters and we should treat everyone with love and respect. They probably don't know about Karma (what goes around comes around) If you are depressed then pray it is the only answer to all of our miseries.
2007-01-09 23:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You cannot control what others do, only what you can. Sometimes that's what girls do, not to justify it but they do and maybe you should get new friends why spend time with people that make you feel bad. Don't let them get you down or affect your life that way, as for school you have a long way to go, just do your best.
2007-01-09 23:19:45 · answer #3 · answered by *sexy mocha* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi,
i gotta tell you honey that not beacause two of your friends hates you that means that everybody hates you too!!
you have to be strong to face this world with its bad people....and be sure that oneday ur friends will look back and say about you that you are a great person coz you never hurt them
nothing should make you feel worthless....you have to beleve in your-self and always treat ppl nicely even if they tret you badly...
and who said that everyone hates you!! i dont hate you,even though i dont really know you....but i still dont hate you....
and be sure that respecting ppl and respecting yourself will force other ppl to respect you....takecare!! U R NOT WORTHLESS!!
2007-01-10 03:54:48 · answer #4 · answered by looly james 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your self esteem and confidence is a bit low. Try to resolve your thoughts and put them out of your mind. Go for a walk and look at the scenery and take in what you are looking at and then appreciate it. You need to rest your thoughts so you can then move on. Read some articles on improving self esteem and confidence.
2007-01-09 23:18:44 · answer #5 · answered by SEO 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you say "right now" and "hates me now", so this sounds temporary. Your thoughts are negative and so you feel negative. Think happy thoughts. Say "My friends love me even though they sometimes say mean things about me". Say "this too shall pass". Say whatever changes the feelings that hold you in their grip. And I think you enjoy a bit of drama, so consider some theatre...
2007-01-09 23:36:09 · answer #6 · answered by SIGGY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find new friends. Everyone goes through what you're going through.
Cheer up and find a hobby, or sport, that you like, and lets you interact with people who like the same thing.
It's going to be OK !
2007-01-09 23:24:34 · answer #7 · answered by DixieNormus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry, that happens...now try to find new friends who are better ..im sure there must be gud ppl around u...to give u company.
remember tht u are unique...dont have low selfesteem...try to help someone, or do things you enjoy....life is very short so enjoy it fully....
be nice to ppl...and ppl will be nice to u !!!
take care!
2007-01-09 23:42:07 · answer #8 · answered by samyshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing, the world is filled with hatred. Live with it!!!
2007-01-09 23:17:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋