i am a big girl, and he was a big guy, he needed the surgery for health reasons, but i feel less confident now, if u had the surgery and can tell me about your spouse or significant other and what happen in your relationship, thanks
2007-01-09 15:10:48 · 5 answers · asked by Tiffany F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would say it's a high probability, but not necessarily true (depends on how long you all have been together, are you married, kids? strong relationship or just beginning?).
Anyway - While he is recovering and eating smaller portions, just follow suit - just think of it, you both slimming down together and you can always say you did it the "hard" way (for a laugh of course!). He'll be eating WAY less, and you can have smaller portions too. You don't have to starve to diet, just start by cutting your portions in half. Then after awhile, he'll start to exercise and by then you should have lost a little weight and your self-confidence should skyrocket and you both can get out and walk, play basketball, whatever, exercise, but fun.
Please put a positive spin on it and you will have success with him and with you!
Good luck to you and your relationship!
2007-01-09 15:48:12 · answer #1 · answered by LittleFreedom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gastric skip surgical procedure is for many who are highly overweight and feature attempted EVERYTHING else. It expenses round $20,000 and isn't blanketed by way of coverage. truthfully, 233 lbs isn't THAT a lot plus you simply had a little one. Try understanding for a couple of months and consuming healthful and I'm definite you'll be able to shed pounds and believe bigger. Gastric skip isn't the "handy" manner out.
2016-09-03 19:28:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the surgery in 2002 heard from many that my life/outlook would change. and it did...some for the good some for the bad. take care of yourself, be healthy and it will work out...
take care
2007-01-09 17:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by wjk31092 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, yes things will change. either you get more health concious or you will outgrow your beau. with the weight loss, he will become more active. basketball, weightlifting, et cetra. so either you fall out of love with food, or your beau will have someone else. you have about 18 months from the date of his surgery before his metamorphosis
2007-01-09 15:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Will he change? Oh, yes he will, and he will feel better and live longer, and you had better follow suit if you want to keep him. If you're a big girl, loose it any way you can or you'll loose him....
2007-01-09 15:38:39 · answer #5 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋