dont get me wrong I loved her I have given her me hopes and dreams. but yet she has accused me of cheating more than once i am honest and tell her everything and she does not believe my words. I have done the things she has aked me to be a better husband to her. but still she mentally and emtionally treats me like crap. so help me out here?
2007-01-09 15:07:35 · 8 answers · asked by angels shadow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds to me like she is looking for a reason to not be close with you. She might have a guilty conscience but want to put the blame on you. A little time apart to thinks things through clearly would help you both. You can find out how much she wants to be in the marriage by asking her to go to marriage counseling with you with the intention of making 100% effort with you to resolve the underlying issues.
2007-01-09 15:15:34 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need professional help; you both should go to see a marriage counselor or talk to your pastor (if you're a Christian).
Have you given her any reason to believe that you cheated on her? Paying compliment to other females or looking at other women (you know follow their every moves)? If not, she's an insecure person and wanted your attention all the times. She's high maintenance. To save this marriage, I suggest you make that appointment soon for both of you.
2007-01-09 23:16:46 · answer #2 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some help from a counselor, minister or priest. Marriage counseling would help both of you. It sounds like she has LOW self esteem.
Both of you should go to the marriage counselor (preferred over minister/priest) and that person will be able to help you both.
Check you insurance, it is often covered.
2007-01-13 20:55:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRUST is the main source of a marriage..If you are treated like crap you can do one of two things.Deal with the abuse or GET OUT of it beflore it ends up in worse sistuation than you will be able to handle.
2007-01-09 23:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by gblue52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are spending too much time on line & addressing your concerns to strangers rather than to your wife. Try a mediator or conselor to help you talk to her.
2007-01-09 23:16:55 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have ever cheated on her and she knows it even if you say you are sorry,she will never trust you again..If you have Never did anything to make her not trust you then she is very insecure...If its # one ,then your over,it its #2 get some counseling
2007-01-10 00:43:03 · answer #6 · answered by slickcut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loved? if you dont love her anymore then you need to let her go so you can both be with someone who u love and loves you back
2007-01-09 23:14:56 · answer #7 · answered by lala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
must be your past ?
2007-01-09 23:13:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋